Ex husband and wife

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   Tess fearposted 9 years ago

   My ex husband left me for another women he had got pregnant , it was a very upsetting devorce for me because I didn't know there was anything wrong it was a shock I grew a lot of hatred towards the two of them very fast , they were married a week after our devorce came through it felt awful seeing him with his new life and happy it's now 6 years on I've moved on and is completely happy with my life now I still had some bitterness for him , then last August he tried to hang himself luckily it was a failed attempt but it killed me thinking I could of never spoken to him again on that day I let go of everything and was finally at peace with them both , he has suffered really bad since then and I'm finding out his perfect happy life with his wife never was , they have decided to take a break and live apart , all I want to know if life was so bad married to me why didn't it drove him to do that and why if he was so happy with his new wife why did he try to do that to himself , a small part of me thinks he started to think it was all a misstake and the guilt of what he done to me caught up with him ???

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      Kathryn L Hillposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Okay, I shall take a stab at giving you advice.
        In the first place, he was no good.
      In the second place, you didn't realize that.
      In the third place. Now you know he is no good.
      So what to do do?
      Realize he did you a huge FAVOR and let it / him / her GO!!!!!!!!! for ever and ever !!! Yay!!!
      
      
      
                              You are FREEEEEEEEEE ……..

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      IslandBitesposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      No. It has nothing to do with you. You know the why: "I'm finding out his perfect happy life with his wife never was , they have decided to take a break and live apart". :-)

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   Tess fearposted 9 years ago

   I would like a reply off somebody please

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      wildernessposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      If you are looking for personal advice, you are in the wrong place.  This is a community of writers, not generally interested in giving personal advice on life's troubles.

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         Kathryn L Hillposted 9 years agoin reply to this

         ARE YOU KIDDING????!!!!

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   Kathryn L Hillposted 9 years ago

   This story is a bit common and not that interesting, however.
   One should never look back, especially when the one who did not contribute to the situation can live guilt free. To look back would be very foolhardy.
   foolhardy:
   reckless, rash, irresponsible, impulsive, hotheaded, impetuous, bullheaded, daredevil, devil-may-care, madcap, harebrained, precipitate, hasty, overhasty; temerarious. ANTONYMS prudent.

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