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Why is it as we get older it gets harder to find love?

  1. Bozzlady profile image51
    Bozzladyposted 8 years ago

    Why is it as we get older it gets harder to find love?

  2. Greyer profile image73
    Greyerposted 8 years ago

    I guess it is because when people get older they start thinking and analyzing too much. They tend to be and act more logical then spontaneous and just jump in it. But who am I to speak of these things, I am only 25, what do I know ....

  3. sbrown1703 profile image56
    sbrown1703posted 8 years ago

    ITS NOT HARD TO FIND LOVE WHEN YOU GET OLDER, TO ME THE OLDER PEOPLE IS THE ONES THAT IN SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS, AND THE YOUNGER FEMALES IS COMPLAINIG BECAUSE SHE CAN'T FIND A DUDE THATS READY TO SETTLE DOWN WITHOUT CHEATING, TO ME OLDER MEN ARE MUCH MATURE THEN THESE YOUNG MEN. AND THEN AGAIN YOU I HEAR ALOT OF PEOPLE SAYING THAT THEY OLDER MEN IS DATING THE YOUNGER FEMALES AND THATS TRUE BECAUSE US YOUNG FEMALES FIND THE OLDER MEN MATURE.

  4. rick_annie profile image53
    rick_annieposted 8 years ago

    because wwe are not as nieve as whwen we were young, As youngsters we lack the knowlege  and the foresight that we gain as we get older. when we are young the whole world is ours, But unfortunatly as we get older we get to focused and wraped up in the uninportant things in the world. I asked my self this same question 8 years ago after being a single dad for 4 years from a 15 yr marriage finnaly i looked at what my ex- wife did and realized we need to seek out the kid in us and re learn how to have fun as a child and enjoy the simple things again. I started looking at the world and my life through the eyes of a child again, my 10 yr old son was a big help in this, i became his best friend not just his dad and then i found true love again by loving me first , ive been re maried for 7 yrs in feb.2010 and enjoy every moment of it. I hope this helps, god bless, Oh! you also need to become friends with GOD because he'll introduse you to some realy awsome people.

  5. Sarah m Marie profile image53
    Sarah m Marieposted 8 years ago

    With age comes wisdom.  Of ourselves, of our expectations, of a relationship's possible longevity.  This is a wonderful development but it makes us more cautious with our time and our hearts.  Don't lose hope.  Go to social and community events where people of similar interests will be and enjoy your life!  Being more self-aware and selective may lessen the numbers but a relationship built on life's experiences is more likely to be satisfying and endure time.

 
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