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To see him or not to see him?

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    frustrated111posted 8 years ago

    To see him or not to see him?

    Me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago from our long distance relationship.  I live in LA he lives in SF. I want to get him back but I know that part of the rules are to limit contact.  I have not called or talked to him since Ive been reading your article. Im visiting SF this weekend to hangout with some friends and I would like to return some of his things. Should I drop it off or arrange to see him. We broke up over the phone and apart of me wants to see him just to have closure or make sure we really want to follow through with this break up. I dont want to scare him away either. help!

  2. dingdong profile image59
    dingdongposted 8 years ago

    How can anyone's suggestion help you? Speak to your own, you are the only one to know what's going on around you and take decision accordingly.

  3. Parentinghelp profile image34
    Parentinghelpposted 8 years ago

    It's good to have a closure. Take the opportunity of returning his stuff to have a good chat with him.

  4. donotfear profile image88
    donotfearposted 8 years ago

    I hope you saw him & got the closure you needed. It will make it a lot easier knowing you had that 'last talk'.