My husband and i have been haveing some problems lately, we dont get along, hes

  1. bbaker4234 profile image55
    bbaker4234posted 8 years ago

    My husband and i have been haveing some problems lately, we dont get along, hes rude and...

    insentive, looks at women, does everything i cant stand and im just wondering what do i do, im lost, i love him so m uch but is it worth it

  2. Ohma profile image73
    Ohmaposted 8 years ago

    Talk to him. Explain to him what he does to upset you and why it upsets you. If he remains so insensitive to your feelings higher a lawyer because only one of you is in love.

  3. astrostar profile image71
    astrostarposted 8 years ago

    I say, muster up all the strength within you and stand on your own 2 feet and move out!!  Trust me, people rarely change- if he's like this now, it will only get worse unless he has a complete epiphany (which may happen once he's realized he's lost you).  If he's looking at women in front of you, it shows his lack of respect and interest in you... You don't need to put up with your own husband being rude!  It will be very hard at first, but it will soon get easier.  Surround yourself with positive friends; make new ones if you have to.. Go on a date, start a project, volunteer in your community- whatever it takes to STAY BUSY!!  Showing you are a confident, strong, beautiful woman will make him realize what a loser he's been!  And if it doesn't, at least you can do it for yourself!  Life is too short to put up with unncecessary negative energy, especially from the very person you should be drawing strength from.  If he doesn't enhance your life, get rid of him.  Only people who make you feel happy and fulfilled should have the privelage of knowing you.  Get rid of him.  You'll be glad you did.  If you stay, you only have yourself to blame.  Good luck:)