Mistaken Need for Love?

  1. heart4theword profile image80
    heart4thewordposted 8 years ago

    Mistaken Need for Love?

    Have you heard this scenario before?

    1) A person loves their spouse, yet feels they don't need them. 

    2) A person needs their spouse, to be the blame for their mistakes.  Not acknowledging this is why they love them, to stay around.

  2. RecoverToday profile image85
    RecoverTodayposted 8 years ago

    This sounds familiar to me. Perhaps this person has become complacent in the marriage and is needing some excitement. But using a spouse to blame for mistakes is not healthy. I would suggest this person seek professional help or discuss their feelings with a trusted friend.

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