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How would you know that you finally found the man you're willing to spend the re

  1. jpolloso profile image59
    jpollosoposted 7 years ago

    How would you know that you finally found the man you're willing to spend the rest of your life w/?

  2. peacock413 profile image61
    peacock413posted 7 years ago

    I haven't dated much but the guy im with now i have a great feeling about. how i know is because when im with him i can be my true true self without no worry of judgment. we learn to love each others quirks and flaws. trust me ull know  just trust your gut:)

  3. KFitzyyy profile image53
    KFitzyyyposted 7 years ago

    I'm 19 years old & I am recently engaged. I know that he is the guy I want to be with. Although I have been on & off with him since I was 15 but it happens in all kinds of ways. Obviously for starters, you know for a fact that you love him. You feel comfortable with him in any situation no matter what & you know for a fact that he loves you, too. You feel like you would do just about anything for him, whether it's something nice for him or just to see him smile. You feel a strong connection with them not necessarily physical but mentally & emotionally. It's really something you just feel naturally when it comes down to that.

  4. estranged911 profile image64
    estranged911posted 7 years ago

    There never is one man.. there are many men you'd want to spend your rest of our lives with.

  5. wychic profile image91
    wychicposted 7 years ago

    I'm sure it's different for everyone, but for me it was the fact that my husband had all of the qualities I ever wanted, I didn't have to settle on anything. Throughout my life I'd thought that my "ideal man" couldn't possibly exist and that I'd be an idiot to try to hold out for someone that fit the description, and it took going through a bad marriage with my first husband to start thinking that it would be better to be alone the rest of my life than to settle again...and then I met the man for whom I don't have to settle or compromise, he is the embodiment of what I always wanted and thought I could never have. It doesn't mean that he doesn't have flaws, everyone does, but those flaws are not in the fundamental characteristics I wanted in a man. We connected very quickly on a deep emotional level, never tire of each other's company, and have felt completely at ease with each other since the day we met.

  6. nochance profile image91
    nochanceposted 7 years ago

    You feel it. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and I already feel as though I want to spend the rest of my life with him. If it works out that way it will be amazing, if something happens that means we have to part ways I will be ok with that too.

    I feel really safe with him and I trust him with everything I have. He trusts me as well and is slowly letting me see the hidden side of him that is scared of being used again.

    I am really truly in love and when he holds my hand or wraps his arms around me I know I never want to be with anyone else.