If you love your partner, won't you be happy for them if they 'cheat'?

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    hubscribeposted 7 years ago

    If you love your partner, won't you be happy for them if they 'cheat'?

    For me, loving someone means that care for another person, even as much as I care for myself.  So if my loved one told me that she had a sexual experience with someone else, then my natural reaction wold be to hope that it was a good experience for her.  On the contrary, most people would feel anger, resentment and a loss of confidence.  Those reactions don't seem like love to me, instead they seem to come from selfish, controlling attitudes.  Love is not ownership.  Am I wrong?  Maybe.

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