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WHEN YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE do you try to make that person happy?

  1. suncat profile image58
    suncatposted 7 years ago

    WHEN YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE do you try to make that person happy?

  2. TinaTango profile image68
    TinaTangoposted 7 years ago

    Always, I believe that is an essential key to a relationship.

  3. lindagoffigan profile image61
    lindagoffiganposted 7 years ago

    Yes, you do because other wise there would be no use for a relationship when there is just turmoil and discontent instead of happiness that everyone deserves.

  4. arb profile image81
    arbposted 7 years ago

    No, I can not make what is already there, but, I can make sure, that none will come and take it away. I can keep it safe, I can protect and nurture and I can share, but, I can not improve, on that which she made within herself.

  5. Taleb80 profile image83
    Taleb80posted 7 years ago

    Otherwise, why I should have relationship with him?
    Sure, I should do my best to make him happy, & I expect the same from him.

  6. onceuponatime66 profile image60
    onceuponatime66posted 7 years ago

    Yes!  I love to help others and I love to give in my relationships.  I give 110%  they tend to do the same.

  7. wytegarillaz profile image76
    wytegarillazposted 7 years ago

    hopefully you are making them happy knowing what they like & don't like without having to try hard .
    There is more happiness in giving than recieving especially when it is someone you love !

  8. duffsmom profile image61
    duffsmomposted 7 years ago

    Well, you can't make someone happy if they are not.  But in a relationship always tried to do things that are kind and considerate for your partner and they will likely do the same.

  9. Becky532 profile image59
    Becky532posted 7 years ago

    Good question! I think that when you are in a relationship, you ideally make each other happy just by being together.  If your partner is having a bad day, you should want to cheer them up, and vice versa.  Sometimes it is easy to make each other happy, and sometimes you have to work at it.  If you partner is dealing with serious issues, it is not your responsibility to change them, in fact you should realize that you cannot be responsible for changing another person! But you can be a support to them, as long as making someone else happy does not diminish your own happiness.

  10. philirodje profile image60
    philirodjeposted 7 years ago

    yes of course, why go into a relationship if you cannot make your partner happy.

    I will do all my best to make my partner happy. It gives me joy the see my partner happy because of me.

  11. rachelsholiday profile image61
    rachelsholidayposted 7 years ago

    Yes, absolutely!  I'm always on the look out for things that would make my husband happy, and I know he works hard to make me happy too.  Otherwise, there isn't really a point to your relationship.  Really, any relationship in your life should be one that makes you happy.  If you're putting a lot into a relationship and the other person isn't then you should stop that relationship.

  12. soneblom profile image61
    soneblomposted 7 years ago

    Yes of course, when two people are in love they want to make each other happy.

  13. ChristineVianello profile image60
    ChristineVianelloposted 7 years ago

    I belive when being in a relationship one tries extra hard to make their better half happy.

  14. moneycop profile image76
    moneycopposted 6 years ago

    depends on if you love that person. Love is inbuilt with the nature of serving and with the relationship of love you want him/her to be happy as your only aim.