When somebody breaks your trust by stealing from you because you let them into y

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   ptosisposted 14 years ago

   When somebody breaks your trust by stealing from you because you let them into your life and was...
   
   generous ... Are you more made at THEM or at YOURSELF because at this age - you should know better. Isn't that why as people get older it's harder and harder to make new friends because you have been Screwed Over so many times before? The older you get the less trust you give out and it takes much longer to build a close friendship because of this - it make you have Oldster's Depression.....
   
   

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   sofsposted 14 years ago

   Ptosis, it just shows poor judgement of  people, you need not be angry with yourself but just be slow to trust people, take more time to asses them , watch and wait before you let them   in close to you and your emotions.. You just need to trust people but take your time.. I hope this helps.. Best wishes.. and hope you don't get hurt anymore!  Life does dish out bad things at us but we need not become bitter and angry, firstly not with ourselves and then with others!

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   dashingscorpioposted 14 years ago

   Trust is like Respect, they both should be earned over time.
   We pick and choose people we allow into our hearts and our homes. There is no escaping this fact.
   It's natural to be upset with those who con us as well as being upset at ourselves for being fooled.
   
   Hopefully with time and experience we become a better judge of character. In the mean time it's important to remember a lesson learned but it's just as important to forgive yourself.
   As one old hit song once stated, "Everybody plays a fool sometimes...etc"

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   ptosisposted 13 years ago

   
   
   Even when I know that the person is a low-life - I am so lonely and talk to them anyway.
   
   I set myself up for the fall - thinking I can ride the wave of deceit - and be above it all. I think I lie to myself most of all.
   
   http://hubpages.com/hub/addictivepersonality

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