Are you one that lets things go or do you hold a grudge?
If you hold a grudge, what purpose does it serve for you?
I used to be seriously good at holding a grudge. I could do it for months.. and a year at the longest, but I started to see that holding a grudge really didn't get me anywhere. So now I just tell the person how I feel about what happened and then I go from there. If they choose to turn on me, then the relationship wasn't meant to last. If they communicate back with me then maybe there's a fighting chance.
I try not to hold a grudge but I do have an enemies list. If you betray me you will never get another chance with me. I won't allow myself to be burned twice.
I will hold a grudge if someone has treated me badly. The purpose it serves is to ensure that I'm protected from them having the chance to do it again.
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