My ex broke up wth me a couple weeks ago.He knows my daughter is close to his kids.He told me at the
time of breakup that she is welcome there still.So today I took her over there, and normally(when we were dating) I'd stay, but I told him I have a lot of studying to do and left after about 5 minutes. I can't tell what he is thinking/wanting. It's hard to see him and I acted as cool as possible. What can I do at this point?I have to pick her up later today and what do I do? we've had breaks before where he gets mad and ignores me, sometimes for weeks, but this time it seemed as though this was final. I just agreed.Reason:Said I just know how to push his buttons? How do I act when I see him?
Sounds like the best thing you can do is to play it cool. Act as though you are going on with your life. Look your most attractive best when you go over there, join a gym, go places with your friends, etc. When he sees that you are moving on, he may change his mind.
Maybe you need to stop "acting" and behaving like this is a game. What if whatever someone tells you back fires and you get yourself or someone else hurt. If this is all a game to you take whatever advice anyone tells you and continue to play games. If this man or your relationship is of importance, get it together and make it work, but who am I to tell you this, you know exactly what you're doing.
Vonda G. Nelson
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