Do you consider physical attractiveness to be the true motive when considering a

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  1. Jangaplanet profile image71
    Jangaplanetposted 8 years ago

    Do you consider physical attractiveness to be the true motive when considering a partner?

  2. kimfaner profile image59
    kimfanerposted 8 years ago

    it could be a true motive for some-- or most-- people. it is a great start for a relationship and then evolves into something deeper. or am i just a superficial retard here?

  3. Angel709 profile image61
    Angel709posted 8 years ago

    I'm not taking any compromises when considering my future partner, so yes, I have to be physically attracted to him.  I don't consider this shallow, because this is just one of several traits I desire.  I plan to look at him most everyday for the rest of my life; he needs to be something I want to see.

  4. Genna East profile image88
    Genna Eastposted 8 years ago

    Love chooses for us.  Inevitably, we neither choose nor decide who we fall in love with; it just is...and it is surprising.  So I'm not sure how much motive plays a role.

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    Giselle Maineposted 8 years ago

    For me it is initially personality and common interests that makes me want to be around someone. If they are physically attractive then it can develop beyond a friendship.  That is exactly what happened when I met my husband - at first I thought of him as a friend/brother who I had lots in common with, then I realized he was really attractive.  It totally worked out for both of us.  So to answer your question, no, physical attractiveness is not the initial motive... but it cannot be completely absent from the relationship with a partner.

  6. barbergirl28 profile image82
    barbergirl28posted 8 years ago

    Yes... because if you are not physically attracted to the person, you will probably not walk over there and talk to them. Therefore, you may never actually find their personality.

    On the other hand, if you have known someone for awhile, they may start to become attractive to you. It wasn't the true motive when you first met them, but then again, you weren't considering them to be a partner at first either.

  7. Sarah Masson profile image64
    Sarah Massonposted 8 years ago

    I think personality is the most important thing but you have to be attracted to the person in some way otherwise it wouldn't work

  8. freedomfromfear profile image61
    freedomfromfearposted 8 years ago

    "True motive"? I don't think it could or should be the "true" motive of making the decision for a partner. It might be a component for considering, but more importantly than physical chemistry is compatibility. They can be the finest thing you ever saw but if they are mean or cruel, what would it matter? My experience has taught me that the number one requirement for picking a partner is their ability to be honest about themselves and take responsibility for their choices. In other words, they don't make me responsible for their happiness.


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