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Is it safe to open your heart fully before your wife?

  1. mdlawyer profile image37
    mdlawyerposted 6 years ago

    Is it safe to open your heart fully before your wife?

  2. lizz loves ... profile image55
    lizz loves ...posted 6 years ago

    it all depens how you word it just try to tell her nicely

  3. framistan profile image59
    framistanposted 6 years ago

    Always speak as much truthfullness as possible... until you reach a point where the truth might hurt or insult or otherwise make her unhappy angry etc.....after that point...  keep your big mouth shut. Anything you say will be held against you FOREVER and you will never live it down. The things you say will be repeated to her family and friends and your family  EVENTUALLY also.  Keep that in mind when your big mouth is telling it all.  Does this policy work?  We are married 19 years so far. This strategy works best when you also have a policy of not doing bad things in the first place so you are not faced with those difficult decisions repeatedly.

  4. lovelife08 profile image60
    lovelife08posted 6 years ago

    It is supposed to be.  If it is not, then that shows your wife cannot be trusted, and you did not necessarily make the right decision in marrying her.