Ladies: What's the biggest turnoff in a guy's online dating profile or his social network page?
I know it's hard to pick just a few no-no's, but I think there are some guys who realize they simply don't know what it takes to attract a lady that they want to be with long-term. Let's be nice and open them up to how we view some of their efforts that come off the wrong way.
I'll begin with a simple one: I like to see a few pictures of a guy in different settings, but narcissistic overload and pictures via the mirror or a turnoff. It says he is self-absorbed as well as unable to find a friend to take his snapshot. A guy's naked body also says, he doesn't know what's important to women.
(and forgive my mis-grammar: "pictures via the mirror "are" a turn off").
I would say bragging. Showing off shows insecurity or something to hide. I don't care what your muscles look like greased up. I don't care what kind of car you drive. I hate a lot of cursing on social pages. My kids get into these and half my family are devout Christians. I like to see the guy has a sense of humor. But I hate seeing someone insulted on Facebook. I like to see a guy enjoying life.
Anything showing a naked torso definitely tells me that he's trying to present himself as a piece of meat -- and trying to find someone that just wants to get laid (with the possible exception of, say, a pic of him with a bunch of friends having a day at the lake or the beach). I hate seeing bad spelling and grammar (a few mistakes are okay, but orcish tells me that we're not going to be able to have mentally stimulating interactions), profanity, and hobbies that include video games and drinking.
by Cheeky Chick 8 years ago
I've been asked to write an online dating profile for a 33 year old fun, fit, adventurous, outdoorsy, girly girl (with big boobs, I might add). She has a great sense of humor, and loves lizards, snakes, and bugs...anything that crawls or slithers. Which is ironic since she really is a...
by SJ Rose 3 years ago
Do you date online? Have an online dating profile setup?Or have you met your current or previous partner using an online dating website?
by Susan Keeping 8 years ago
Sonamgoel is not only spamming the forum with call-girl ads, he has also created, at last count, 12 identical articles promoting the same call girl agency.
by Andy McGuire 5 years ago
What's the worst online dating profile mistake a person (man or woman) can make?Online dating is all about selling yourself as a datable human being while (if you're smart) being honest and upfront about who you are. It's no easy task, and I have noticed a few very common mistakes that at least...
by Lori Colbo 4 weeks ago
I just came on my profile page and the new design is terrible. There's a lot of empty space and the articles are not on it, you have to click articles. The profile page is boring and lacks relevant information. I don't care about accolades because they are meaningless. This is a disservice to the...
by Cagsil 6 years ago
Hey Hubber Community,Yes it is I, Cagsil, a.k.a. Raymond Choiniere and I've received a request which I am going to do it.Okay, first things first- I've been asked if I would do a 2012 Edition of my Women Writers In HubPages Community Hubs. Now, I didn't do it in 2011 and that was due to other...
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc. HubPages and Hubbers (authors) may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.
|HubPages Device ID||This is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.|
|Login||This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.|
|HubPages Traffic Pixel||This is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.|
|Remarketing Pixels||We may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.|
|Conversion Tracking Pixels||We may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.|