Is it seriously possible for someone to love Two at the same time and if yes how

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  1. ahmed.b profile image75
    ahmed.bposted 6 years ago

    Is it seriously possible for someone to love Two at the same time and if yes how to mange it?

    I am asking from both male and female's point of view. And if yes how to tell both about it and how this relation can be legalized.

  2. katyzzz profile image61
    katyzzzposted 6 years ago

    Just forget it and if you can't think about ending the associations with both, give it some time and move on with your life, seriously with just the one soul mate, life is difficult enough and you are not doing yourself or your love interests any favours, and frankly that you should even be thinking about it alarms me.  If you want to hurt a lot of people including yourself, continue with these disastrous ideas, I wonder what others will have to say.

  3. Disturbia profile image61
    Disturbiaposted 6 years ago

    Yes, I absolutely believe you can be in love with two people at the same time.  The way you manage it all depends on the people involved.  Some people are OK in a plural relationship, other's are not.  For myself, I would rather know about the other person, than have my lover sneaking around behind my back.  It's all about the honesty for me.  I've been in an "open marriage" where my husband had other lovers, both male and female.  He never lied to me about his intentions or made any false promises.  We were very happy together for eight years till he passed away.  I've also been married to a man who would sneak around behind my back, lie, make promises he never intended to keep and in general, made a fool of me at every opportunity.  After five years of his lies I finally had enough and showed him the door.  What was the difference you might ask?  Honesty.  My first husband never lied to me, the other one did nothing but lie to me, and had a completely secret life. I can't stand a liar.

    1. katyzzz profile image61
      katyzzzposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      I can;t stand a liar, either, but it seems you have never experienced the 'love' of a decent man, and for this you must ask yourself some questions,  I feel so sorry for people like you, it is not an either/or situation and never should be.

  4. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    In order to fall in love with a second person you would have to cheat emotionally with another person. Love doesn't happen to us or fall out of the sky. Generally speaking we have to spend/invest one on one time, share intimacy either emotionally or physically. As for legalities it's not "illegal"to date more than one person at a time. With regard to marriage most countries don't allow polygamy.


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