I didn't know I was until someone told me. LOL. My response to them was well, if I don't look out for myself then nobody will. Everyone has their own life and you can't be counting on people too much either. So basically, a narcissist or egomaniac thinks the world revolves around them. Everything is me, me and me. They don't care about anyone's feelings.
I guess if you are always putting yourself first without thinking how it might effect others.
When I think of the word (selfish) I think in terms of someone who is unwilling to "share". They want it all to themselves.
I don't believe it's possible to be selfish "full-time". Most "healthy" people want to make friends and eventually find love or gain praise of some kind from others. What normally happens is those who are called "selfish" most likely are just very "selective" with whom they (share) with. One man's opinion! :-)
There are only two ways to experience joy and happiness in life. We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Be careful when others label you various names. Most likely it's a manipulation ploy to get you to do what THEY want you to do. Life is a personal journey! You have to run your own race.
When your primary concern at all times is you, your needs and wants, and your happiness above everyone and everything else you are probably selfish.
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