What is an appropriate monetary wedding gift for a friend these days?

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   cardeleanposted 12 years ago

   What is an appropriate monetary wedding gift for a friend these days?
   
   A friend recently asked me what is considered a typical amount of money to include in a card as a wedding gift.  I realized that years ago when I got married, I knew the answer to this, but having been out of that for a while, I am not really sure.  This would not be for a very close friend or family member.

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   KevinC9998posted 12 years ago

   It really depends on a number of factors. Some examples would be the cost of the venue, how close you are to the couple and most importantly, how much you can afford!  Good luck.

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   Millionaire Tipsposted 12 years ago

   It really depends on so many different things - the general economy of your city, and the wealth / generosity of your group of friends. It also depends on how many gifts you have to give out - when there are a lot of weddings in one summer, it makes it less affordable to go all out on any one person.
   
   I read on the radio that $100 was a good gift, but there is no way I could afford something like that.  Among my friends, it is generally around $25.  I would give $50 if I could afford it to people I am closer to.  Generally, you should give about how much you generally give to your (not immediate) family and friends for their birthday or holiday.
   
   You want to give a gift that shows your well wishes without going broke.  Make sure you wrap it really prettily and take care in choosing a great card.
   After all, it shouldn't be the money that matters.

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   mrsgrayposted 12 years ago

   I recently got married and we averaged $50-$100 per card.  Definily more then we expected.  I personally would think $50 would work, or look at the cost of a dinner for 2 at a nice restaraunt.

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      teaches12345posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      It's nice to hear feedback from a newlywed on this question.  I think gift cards are so much the wiser choice these days and $50 sounds so reasonable.

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   Alaina Smith Cainposted 12 years ago

   Give enough money to get a "quickie" divorce but don't tell them that's what it's for.

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