beauty fades yes, but people's personalities can suffer as well, depending on their circumstances. and i have seen plenty of older women, all gorgeous, who are still beautiful. Christie Brinkley, Goldie Hawn, Michelle Pfeiffer, Kim Bassinger - it's like a model home or a fine luxury car, even with age they still retain their beauty and charm. a lot of that beauty comes from their personality too. in fact you can't have one without the other. i think it's an urban legend that you can't be both.
I mean, I think my husband is incredibly sexy, with a great personality. Other women think so too. He was a 48 yr old playboy bachelor when we met. He's now 52, settled and still has a great fun personality, with a healthy sexy body.
you could be the most beutiful girl in the world but have the worst ever personality. It clearly has to be personality; cuz looks fade; it's who you are on the inside that really matters! And any guy who just goes out with a girl just cuz she's pretty isn't worth going out with. xxx
We all agree, but the rest of the world doesn't seem to! I make friends on-line very easily, but out on the town? Not so much.
A wise and trusted man told me (just this week) that no, I'm not a ravaging beauty. However, luckily, I don't have to date myself! I was laughing hard, but at the same time, it made me feel like I should go out and try again...
It takes a TON of maintenance to keep this mug looking as fine as it does. I'm going to make a fresh pot of coffee right now
When I see a guy and he is cute, hott, sexy whatever and then I talk to him and he's a moron, tool, douchebag, ass, boring whatever it kills it. Immediately. So while looks may be the initial attraction factor, personality is what makes you stay.
personality is a set of characteristics that tend to describe how you act. it's not something with a "good" or "bad" value, it only summarizes differences between people.
beauty seems to be how people describe experiences that give them a sense of awe, admiration, power, or aesthetic pleasure. it's not something that people "have" or don't have, because 1)you can't force other people to experience beauty, and 2) beauty is abstract, not concrete.
Ok am not usually one of them poops who bear the soul on the internet but since its becoming normal for people to pour out their troubles I figured I can share mine too..Anyway I'm in a bit of a pickle so here...
Just curious, this question is to you men. Suppose you had two women you are interested in and they are both interested in you. One is very beautiful the other is just plain looking. But the beautiful woman is...