Good Personality vs. Beauty

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   topshelfposted 14 years ago

   Which one do you prefer? Someone that has an excellent personality, but they lack beauty on the outside. Or someone that has beauty, but lack a good personality.

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      prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Can I have both, Ms myownworld is like that good personality and beauty,
      
      I like to have both, but if it cant be I like to prefer good personality more, I can look at myself beautiful if I want too anyway, I juts pretend to be, beauty fades, character lives,
      
      have a good day!

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         GeneralHowitzerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         seconded and PD is the testament nyahahaha...
         
         
         Weeee I just earned a Starbucks credit from pretty woman awww or should I say prettydarkhorse...

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            prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            ok GH, I will send it to you now before xmas, my gift for you, just kiss that cutie boy there!!

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      cosetteposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      why not both?
      
      beauty fades yes, but people's personalities can suffer as well, depending on their circumstances. and i have seen plenty of older women, all gorgeous, who are still beautiful. Christie Brinkley, Goldie Hawn, Michelle Pfeiffer, Kim Bassinger - it's like a model home or a fine luxury car, even with age they still retain their beauty and charm. a lot of that beauty comes from their personality too. in fact you can't have one without the other. i think it's an urban legend that you can't be both.

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         topshelfposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Because it's not always the case that we can have both.

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      IntimatEvolutionposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Is it wrong to prefer both? 
      
      I mean, I think my husband is incredibly sexy, with a great personality.  Other women think so too.  He was a 48 yr old playboy bachelor when we met.  He's now 52, settled and still has a great fun personality, with a healthy sexy body. 
      
      So is it bad to want both?

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         topshelfposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Of course not!!!

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      Dixie Wposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Your personality is what makes you beautiul. Just ask anyone I work with, they all tell me so. LOL

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   chenmikehkposted 14 years ago

   Personality first. Outward beauty is subjective.

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      Implicit Cogitoposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      nah, both are subjective.

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   Hanna Bambinaposted 14 years ago

   you could be the most beutiful girl in the world but have the worst ever personality. It clearly has to be personality; cuz looks fade; it's who you are on the inside that really matters! And any guy who just goes out with a girl just cuz she's pretty isn't worth going out with. xxx

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      GeneralHowitzerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Yeah it is hehehe wow nice author score you have there eh...
      
      @PD you can kiss him anytime you want, you're just a plane a way anyways...

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         prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         YES, pakikurot, (pinched, ouch)

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            GeneralHowitzerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Aw how about me cutie...

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               prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               aw am sure he looks like you,

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                  GeneralHowitzerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  sort of hehhehe, veering away from the topic sowe...

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      topshelfposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I agree. Beauty is only skin deep, but your personality is what counts!

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         wyanjenposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         We all agree, but the rest of the world doesn't seem to!
         I make friends on-line very easily, but out on the town? Not so much.
         
         A wise and trusted man told me (just this week) that no, I'm not a ravaging beauty. However, luckily, I don't have to date myself! I was laughing hard, but at the same time, it made me feel like I should go out and try again...
         
         It takes a TON of maintenance to keep this mug looking as fine as it does. I'm going to make a fresh pot of coffee right now

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      Dao Hoaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I "second" this. Totally agree, but the outer beaty does get the attention first
      
      I am still say I want to have personality, if I have to make a choice. Too dependent on beauty will make you be sad in later years when gravity set in.

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   Jonathan Jancoposted 14 years ago

   For some ridiculous reason, I thought I could have both!

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   Colebabieposted 14 years ago

   When I see a guy and he is cute, hott, sexy whatever and then I talk to him and he's a moron, tool, douchebag, ass, boring whatever it kills it. Immediately. So while looks may be the initial attraction factor, personality is what makes you stay.

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      Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks, Colebabie, for framing this in way that doesn't include 'women this and that,' from a female perspective looking at male attractiveness, and for making sense.

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   Colebabieposted 14 years ago

   No problem Lita! How are you?

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      Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

        Fine!  Looking for a new adapter from my laptop right now...

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   lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

   Beauty is in the personality - comes out in everything you do as much as how you act or behave or take care of yourself - I am confused on the difference.

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      you cant see personality from across the bar. but looks eventualy will fade.

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      Implicit Cogitoposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      personality is a set of characteristics that tend to describe how you act.  it's not something with a "good" or "bad" value, it only summarizes differences between people.
      
      beauty seems to be how people describe experiences that give them a sense of awe, admiration, power, or aesthetic pleasure.  it's not something that people "have" or don't have, because 1)you can't force other people to experience beauty, and 2) beauty is abstract, not concrete.

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   myownworldposted 14 years ago

   let's be honest, a bot of both always helps!

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      thats what i was going to say. or alcohol....

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   fishtiger58posted 14 years ago

   Personality by far. Beauty fades but a wonderful personality is, to coin a phrase "priceless".

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    AEvansposted 14 years ago

    Peronality first outward beauty second, you can be beautiful on the outside but unattractive on the outside. Beauty fades but personality lasts a lifetime.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

    Do we have to talk?

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