the points to a long loving relationship

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   jasmine bernalposted 15 years ago

   I dont care what any one says. there are ways for both you and your partner to be happy. and never blow out the flame between each other. trust me!
   step one never ever go to bed mad... i know everyone does it but that dont mean you have too. when ever he is arguing or you started it because he forgot to take the trash out before work dont get in the bed mad. your bed is your relationships sanctuary if you cant make it there where can you make it?
   step two talk things out. there should be no need to argue when you both are trying to understand one another. look at things from the others perspective. then state your own.
   step three it s the little things that count. whether it is buying a cheap thing for him just because u found it. or asking him about his day , he will love the fact that you care about him
   step four own your words dont say things just because you can. this can go either way. dont say things to purposly hurt each other, dont say things u dont actually mean. even if it is harmles dont say it unless you mean it.
   step five respect each others space. i know it is a bit difficult cause you always want to seem but dont forget the ones around you.your friends and family. take time to hang out with the girls. and dont freak if he wants guy time that doesnt make him an automatic cheater.
   step six listen to each other trust me it is easier than it sounds talk bout anything and everything... let him see the woman you really are. but still show him the respect to listen to his every word. no i m not saying do as he says i mean just listen to him you might find out something new.
   step seven take turns picking the date.... ask him wat he wants to do for a change or visa versa.
   and last but not least  dont make your relationship a monarchy ..... you both have equal rights....wat is good for the goose is good for the gander
   a relationship takes effort love respect trust and dedication ... hopefully this will help somebody

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   heart4thewordposted 15 years ago

   You should think about making a hub-page:)

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   Himitsu Shugishaposted 15 years ago

   I agree, this would probably make a really good hub.

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