Is it possible to be a good kisser?

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  1. Josh Makaveli profile image40
    Josh Makaveliposted 10 years ago

    Is it possible to be a good kisser?

    i had a relationship but ended up for some reason and now I realized that I am a very bad kisser so if someone can help me how to be a good kisser. someone told me that this quality varies person to person and no one can improve its kissing quality

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  2. Darla Dwire profile image60
    Darla Dwireposted 10 years ago

    For one thing. People have to feel a connection to give a world renowned kiss. Anyone can be a good kisser. You want to be an expert kisser. The best way to do that is to relax and stop worrying about what others have told you. Feel the moment and your lips and tongue will lead you. I have always said that kissing is the best foreplay. Take the lead from your partner. If she is doing something you like then mimic her actions. Kissing is a natural reaction and should be done with no expectations.
    So relax my friend and just go with it!!!!

    1. Josh Makaveli profile image40
      Josh Makaveliposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      sounds good to me! I think taking the lead is a good idea smile

  3. dashingscorpio profile image69
    dashingscorpioposted 10 years ago

    Kissing like beauty is in the eye of the beholder or in this scenario the person being kissed. In other words different people like to be kissed differently. However the most important thing needed is chemistry! There is no "one size" fits all approach to kissing. You adjust.
    If someone is "into you" they're likely to enjoy kissing you unless you're doing something awfully horrible. The best approach is to start off with gentle kisses and then (based upon their response) you can gradually become more enthusiastic.
    The goal is to (always remain in sync) with the other person.

    1. Josh Makaveli profile image40
      Josh Makaveliposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      the strategy to start off gently and then gradually move further seems quite fair. how about watching videos and learning from them?

    2. dashingscorpio profile image69
      dashingscorpioposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Videos probably are the best way neither is watching romantic movies. Kissing and reacting to being kissed comes down to the (chemistry) between you and the other person. The standard "go to move" is start slowly and naturally go with the flow.

    3. Josh Makaveli profile image40
      Josh Makaveliposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      yes you are right its all about chemistry and your strategy seems pretty nice to me

    4. Darla Dwire profile image60
      Darla Dwireposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      No video is going to teach you what instinct has given you. Do not let one persons opinion ruin your confidence in your ability to perform. Take a deep breath and remember practice makes perfect.

    5. Josh Makaveli profile image40
      Josh Makaveliposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you Darla!
      I understand its all about instincts and feelings one has for the other so listening to heart is one key. Practicing ofcourse will bring a major change

 
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