How Do You Make A Girl Fall In Love With You Instantly?

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  1. ngureco profile image79
    ngurecoposted 13 years ago

    How Do You Make A Girl Fall In Love With You Instantly?

  2. sasanqua profile image77
    sasanquaposted 13 years ago

    I really don't think that is possible! Falling in love with someone takes time. I believe people can be attracted to another person really quickly, but love happens more slowly.

  3. Diana King profile image60
    Diana Kingposted 13 years ago

    You can't. It's something that happens in her head and body.

    You can try to make her fall in love with you over time, if you work at it, but even then ... it may never happen.

  4. Hungry-n-Foolish profile image61
    Hungry-n-Foolishposted 13 years ago

    Not easy, but yeah, not impossible either. Something like, "Ah. These eyes. There is so much love hidden out there" or "Well, I guess that we should start talking now, else, I may soon die" can trigger some amount of interest in you, and can lead to love, if you are really lucky. The mantra is to be honest, and ask yourself, whether you are really in love with her or not. If you are, then, believe me, God will help you out. The paths can be made. Just that, you should have a destination.

    All the best!

  5. pageantgirl31413 profile image78
    pageantgirl31413posted 13 years ago

    I fell in love with my husband the moment I saw him. I don't know what exactly made me do that but I do know that he showed that he was very confident. Not the 'oh I'm hot' confident but the 'I like myself for who I am'. I do think that made a part. However, I don't think there is much you can do to make her fall in love with you instantly. You can only keep her love going and build it up so that you really build a relationship.

  6. TylerCapp profile image82
    TylerCappposted 13 years ago

    You just need to be yourself 100%. No attitude, not doing something different to impress her. And, if it was meant to be, there is a chance that she'll fall in love with you instantly -- that is, if she's the right one for you. Otherwise, love usually starts small and it gradually grows more and more each day. It gets to be so much, eventually, that you don't think it's possible that the love for her could ever increase beyond that point. But then it does.

  7. baldwinkenn profile image61
    baldwinkennposted 13 years ago

    if she loves herself, and truly understands what love is it can happen at first sight, fa real dough.

  8. whoflungdung profile image60
    whoflungdungposted 13 years ago

    Good question.
    It has happened to me before but only once and only because I was incredibly happy to see someone and had no idea that the girl was even there.
    There is a saying about never walking around with a frown because you never know who is falling in love with your smile?
    I think that helps and also the big old list of variables. I do not think it is possible to target someone you want to love and to get her to fall in love with you instantly. In fact if it was possible, that would be a little unfair on the ladies.
    That said I have fallen in love before at first sight once and while she is married to someone else in another country with children, she still has a special place.

  9. profile image55
    hope*posted 13 years ago

    just be your self and if its ment to be it will happin. love at first sight isnt always going to happen. keep trying but dont get obsessd.

  10. john84 profile image62
    john84posted 13 years ago

    Be sweet to her without doing something who isn't you. Chances are when the girl also likes you, she will reciprocate the feeling.

  11. sid_candid profile image59
    sid_candidposted 13 years ago

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  12. RunnerJane33 profile image51
    RunnerJane33posted 13 years ago

    If you only have an instant, all you really have time for is a confident smile!

  13. suny51 profile image61
    suny51posted 13 years ago

    call her'sister ' -she will sure love you.
    cause  a brother these days is a rare commodity.

  14. profile image37
    schiraneya703posted 13 years ago

    it is not a easy to fall in love instantly. true love always takes a time...

  15. nifty@50 profile image69
    nifty@50posted 13 years ago

    I don't believe in love at first sight! There may be a strong physical attraction that initially draws you towards that person, but how can you love someone you do not even know! It is the personality traits not merely looks that bring you to love and stay in love with someone and this takes time!

  16. LensMan999 profile image60
    LensMan999posted 13 years ago

    I  think, by being very authentic and making the girl feel very special, will make her fall in love with you instantly.

  17. DavitosanX profile image61
    DavitosanXposted 13 years ago

    The objective and simple answer is that it's impossible. If the girl likes you, and you start a relationship, maybe love will come. If you want instant love, you should look into magic.

  18. profile image48
    clockzrun18posted 13 years ago

    not possible.... find out what she a guy... her hobbies, all that.

  19. Trohnjem profile image60
    Trohnjemposted 13 years ago

    Tell her you never want to fall in love, then she will be so determined to change your mind she'll fall in love with you.

  20. TheRepublicofLife profile image60
    TheRepublicofLifeposted 13 years ago

    I'll find out what her favorite song is, then serenade her with my acoustic guitar.

  21. 2besure profile image81
    2besureposted 13 years ago

    There is no such thing as love at first site.  Maybe strong immediate attraction that my later develop into love.

  22. JonesChicago profile image60
    JonesChicagoposted 13 years ago

    My wife and I fell in love with each other, i guess you could say, at first sight. The real answer to this question is being chivalrous, considerate and honest from the start. I am old fashioned and treat women as they should be, an intellectual equal and a queen. I am always opening doors for my wife and showering her with flowers and gifts throughout the year. Granted there is a line, but the woman will let you know when you are crossing it by doting on her too much. I think is why my wife fell for me near instantly. We are very honest and sarcastic individual's and hit it off from the start. I know it is rare, but I say what is even more rare, are guy's that actually treat women as they should be. Not taken for granted! I fall in a 1% group and that group is dieing fast.

  23. pinkboxer profile image59
    pinkboxerposted 13 years ago

    I fell for my husband like a ton of bricks the minute I saw him. . Love at first sight?  You betcha. That laugh. That smile. I was captivated. And he sang to me later. Sound corny? No, he was just being himself. No fake games. True sincerity opens the door for love to grow.

  24. Techtree profile image61
    Techtreeposted 13 years ago

    You can attracted to someone at first sight but it takes time to fall in love with someone. When you understand feelings, think everytime about,

  25. Wayne Brown profile image80
    Wayne Brownposted 13 years ago

    Show her a new car, a diamond necklace and a fat bank account!

  26. RapidJunction profile image58
    RapidJunctionposted 13 years ago

    Be someone who, when stands among 1000 people, is unique and easily seen. To be that unique, you have to look like model too, so gym, fashion-clothes, and perfume matters alot. Plus be honest. And never expect a long term relationship, as sometimes girls don't bother honesty. Because there are many times when they need money or other forms of satisfaction than being honest.
    Also girls like funny and confident guys too. If you are funny for 5 minutes and confident for 10 minutes, then she will fall in love instantly. After that she don't care about skin color and/or nationality.

  27. rahat.infinite profile image60
    rahat.infiniteposted 13 years ago

    Kindness, and expression of love... show her you care her. eyes plays a big role in it

  28. stricktlydating profile image85
    stricktlydatingposted 13 years ago

    If he looks nice, smiles at me, and is brave enough to come up to me and try to start a genuine conversation, he's off to a good start!

  29. profile image52
    deprinceposted 13 years ago

    I doubt if there's a straight answer to that question. But i believe girls seem to take an instant liking to a guy who doesn't show an interest in them. He just greets quietly, maybe smiles a little, but does not 'hover' over the girl as most guys like to do. Girls fall for this, though they may not show it instantly.
    How do i know this? it's worked for me all the time. I'm a naturally quiet (shy?) guy and I'm a regular guest to ladies always wanting to come in and become a special part of my life, most times after a first meeting. It's like women love to know what it is about you that you are not letting out; or maybe they just think if you're not 'bothering' girls like other guys, then you'll be less of a player.
    But, I also know how to say the right things at the right time. I'm that kind of guy who 'sees' people in just about five minutes; and saying what a girl - or whoever - wants to hear or acting as they want is easy. You may add this to the point above, and win every sweet heart instantly.

  30. thebluestar profile image78
    thebluestarposted 13 years ago

    Make her laugh and watch the barriers come down

  31. profile image53
    Happylivingposted 13 years ago

    if you really care about a girl and love her, look into  her eyes, and tell her how you feel.

  32. profile image53
    Wong Jia Houposted 13 years ago

    It's sounded crazy but most of the people do it like tis.first try to hate her and like fighting lately she will feel that she think that she love u and when u fight agn,u fell down wif her and accidently kiss the love story will strt from there and lately they will married each other.for example.

    But,if a person really hate each other,diffrent say

  33. profile image49
    muddles4posted 13 years ago

    if you have to make her fall for you then maybe you're just not right for each other. that is a possibility. but if you really love her just wait a while.
    as for me and my boyfriend, i fell for him as soon as i saw him, i just didn't know it. he was terrified of me rejecting him and then when we did get together my depression took hold and i broke his heart by breaking up with him........
    but then over a long time my brother made me see sense and a year later i told him that i couldn't live without him and i honestly believe that when he agreed to give it another go he saved my life.
    i wanted to die every day, but thanks to his love and support my depression is under controll and the last 4 years with him have been the happiest of my life. smile
    so maybe a girl just needs time to realise how she feels, with a little help from friends and family, and a little patience from you along the way.
    the best things come to those who wait and it will be all the better for your patience. trust me lol.

  34. Kevin Peter profile image60
    Kevin Peterposted 13 years ago

    To have a sexy and handsome look is the key to make girl fall in love with you. But depends on the girl’s nature. If Girl is simple and sober she like a boy with simple look and respective attitude. And boy should not be under flirting category.

  35. John B Badd profile image60
    John B Baddposted 13 years ago

    You can not make someone fall in love with you.
    Unless you have a love spell, and i do not, and if i did i would not share it with you. tongue

  36. profile image0
    manumposted 13 years ago

    Ask yourself the most important question. Count to five. When you have the answer, ask her for the best way to contact you (personally) and pretend that you are holding her hand.

  37. profile image0
    nouval arrizkyposted 13 years ago

    care about her. and help her if she need help

  38. profile image52
    Dollyzimbaposted 13 years ago

    What girls need from a man is care . just show her all the care u ve got and have patience. Be there for her when she needs somebody around and then u will see.

  39. puebloman profile image60
    pueblomanposted 13 years ago

    It depends how insecure the girl is.

    The more insecure she is the better flattery, flowers and chocolate work.

    I take it by "falling in love" you mean temporary and intense infatuation, not the real thing.

    We have to try to separate real relationships, especially those of friendship and love from pretentious commercial "network" vehicles like facebook and hubpages

  40. mymobileskins profile image60
    mymobileskinsposted 13 years ago

    you might need to think twice when a girl 'instantly' fall in love with you unless you are dreaming...wake up dude!

  41. Japemwellows profile image58
    Japemwellowsposted 13 years ago

    Impossible! But I would try to make her laugh, girls like a good sense of humour. Other than, flatter her, maybe write her a cheesy song and cook something awesome! Luck!?

  42. tom hellert profile image60
    tom hellertposted 13 years ago

    only legal means i can think of and even then....?

  43. cory39rocha profile image60
    cory39rochaposted 13 years ago

    The greatest thing is that we can not make any one to fall in love with us. Love is like it is it happen instantly and when it happen it can change your life.Or may destruct your life so do not make such things just let it happen simply.

  44. nikmaya62 profile image61
    nikmaya62posted 13 years ago

    Love needs a process. So, for time to time it will grow until the top of feeling. It is impossible to make a girl fall in love with us instantly otherwise you are a top star.

  45. starqueen13 profile image60
    starqueen13posted 13 years ago

    I HATED my boyfriend the moment i saw

    but after a year of seeing him i finally realized why i didnt like him that much

    i didnt want to admit that i loved him smile lol

    so maybe a girl will fall in love with a guy instantly, but not realize it.

  46. epigramman profile image59
    epigrammanposted 13 years ago

    ..just listen to her - and always respect her parents!

  47. avoiceofone18 profile image61
    avoiceofone18posted 13 years ago

    Forgive me, but your question indicates that you may have some insecurities that make it difficult for you to see the importance of buliding a relationship the proper way. Develop a relationship with yourself first, so that you can best understand what you require.  Love has to be develped over time and when a woman falls in love, you want it to be sincere.
    Looking for instant love is a direct route to pain. Do the work so that you both can experience love as it is meant to be.

  48. niceandcool profile image60
    niceandcoolposted 13 years ago

    i just look at her eyes trying to tell she was the most beautiful girl I've seen.

  49. profile image49
    muthusamiposted 13 years ago

    Hi..Its not a matter at all. First of all You need to find out what are things your lover likes and don't likes? Behave & act based on that.Definitely you can make your love success.

  50. clearblue99 profile image60
    clearblue99posted 13 years ago

    Looks deftly help my friend looks are a definite must put a few really wants real growth the instant that they look you guys to throw them the biggest draw me closer look you've ever given


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