What should one think about a guy who deletes messages and claims you never wrote them?
Ok, here is some background on that question. This guy came on to me and I told him I was not interested after a few chat sessions on a particular social site. We were not chatting live, he would leave messages and so would I. He started saying things to me that sent re flags but when I told him I did not want to continue, he deleted my messages and then tried to convince me I never sent them. What is your take on this? What would you do?
He sounds like a psycho and a loser, and you should ignore him.
Thanks. I did block him but the whole delete my messages and try to claim I never wrote them was odd so I wanted more input.
Have you got screenshots of the messages you sent (or can you find them to screenshot them - "prt sc" on my laptop, 'print screen' on desktops and clicking the top button and the home button together on an iphone) - and in particular of the messages he sent you that sent up red-flags?
If so, and he continues to harass you - report him to the social sites administrators, and either provide the screen shots or advise them you have them if they need to see them.
It likely won't just be you he is hassling, and if no one reports him - he could do it to others.
I think he's got some issues that need dealing with.
Cynthianne, If you truly aren't interested in him you should care less about those messages. I see later on that you stated you have "blocked him". However you have not let him completely go.
Seeking understanding of a deprived mind or some type closure is a waste of your time and energy.
You (know) what messages (you) sent. Ignore his Jedi mind tricks!
You asked: "What would you do?".
I'd move on be glad that it never went further. Next!
Well, it isn't that I haven't moved on, I really did not want to be in a relationship with someone that sent up so many red flags. I asked the question more out of curiosity of what others would have done in my situation. The writer in me came out.
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