I want to know how to move on. I want to live my life as normal like before

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  1. profile image49
    saira dimasarposted 7 years ago

    I want to know how to move on. I want to live my life as normal like before

    how can I forget the past?

  2. Omar Eldamsheety profile image73
    Omar Eldamsheetyposted 7 years ago

    Love is the most powerful thing which can make us forget the past and the future and live the moment.

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      saira dimasarposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you

  3. dashingscorpio profile image73
    dashingscorpioposted 7 years ago

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    The only way to "move on" is to let go and (focus) on other things. Your future lies ahead of you and not behind you!
    If your relationship ended accept that it's over and put away any reminders of it in storage. Unfriend your ex on all social media, delete phone and email contact information, and avoid going places you know your ex frequents.
    Stop "romanticizing the past" by wearing "rose tinted glasses". Having "selective memory" keeps you from seeing things for what they are.
    In order for your (ex) to have been "the one" he/she would have had to see (you) as being "the one".
    At the very least a "soul-mate" is someone who actually WANTS to be with you! (And vice versa).
    Allow yourself time to grieve among your close friends.
    Get back to doing things you love but may have neglected while you were in that relationship. Set some goals that have nothing to do with your relationship status.
    Put energy into your career, learning new things, traveling, working out, and living well.
    That (person) who you can't imagine living without just know this: There are over (7 Billion) of us who are doing exactly that every day! In fact (you) use to be one of us.
    Eventually you'll meet someone new and fall in love.
    You'll tell yourself if it hadn't been for my breakup with my ex I would have never met this "great person".
    Every ending is a new beginning!

    1. profile image49
      saira dimasarposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Very well said from you.. Your advices helps me alot.. Thank you.

    2. dashingscorpio profile image73
      dashingscorpioposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      You're welcome!

    3. Ben716 profile image84
      Ben716posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      You have said it all. I agree with you.

  4. Ben716 profile image84
    Ben716posted 7 years ago

    I will add forgive him if he wronged you and ensure you dont have near you anything that reminds you of him.  Deal with the negative emotions that results from a breakup such as anger and bitterness. Don't suppress the emotions, deal with them. Make a decision you are not going to sllow your ex to control your life, you are hoing to move and you are going to get over the breakup. Live as if you have never known your ex.

 
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