Boyfriend of one year caught having commenting lewd on instagram girls. How to g

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  1. profile image56
    CCSHposted 15 months ago

    Boyfriend of one year caught having commenting lewd on instagram girls. How to get over it?

    him 28, me 24. He hardly like any of my pictures, but I caught his liking provocative pictures of other girl. No one ever think I am unattractive. Perhaps I have no boobs. but thats about it, deste him telling me it is enough. well, basically he is caught commenting on instagram models lewd comments, such as "the bikinis looks nice on you, but it would look nicer on the bedroom floor" not innocent "you are pretty " etc. confronted him and he says he "dont remember" he commented it while we were 9  months into r/s and now I feel that he destroy my self esteem leaving  it damaged & bloody.

  2. RTalloni profile image91
    RTalloniposted 15 months ago

    Please read the book "Lies Women Believe and the Truth that Sets Them Free.

  3. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 15 months ago

    Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
    Each of us has our own boundaries and "deal breakers".
    If you're unhappy with your choice feel free to make another one. Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself.
    You are responsible for maintaining your self-esteem.
    "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
    - Oscar Wilde

  4. nochance profile image91
    nochanceposted 15 months ago

    Life is too short to spend it with someone that makes you unhappy. There are plenty of people out there who I'm sure would be happy to have you as partner and would want to make you feel happy about yourself.

    Think about where this relationship is headed. What if one of these girls messages him back? How would he react? What then?

  5. fpherj48 profile image76
    fpherj48posted 14 months ago

    Send this seedy playboy on his way.  He thinks nothing of mental & emotional infidelity.  It's highly rude and insensitive of him to make remarks as he does online to other women.
    You have no responsibility to simply "get over this" and give him reason to believe his behavior is acceptable.
    The man is an online stalker and predator, which in itself is cause for alarm.
    Leave him to his virtual bikini girls and crude comments.  You must not tolerate his behavior and certainly not sanction it.  This relationship is not at all worth saving.  He is who and what he is.  You can do much better.


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