How to deal with this relationship?
I’m in a relationship with a 55-year old guy and I am 30 years old. we’ve been together for more than a year now. But I noticed that this past 3months he changed. I know he have a lot of problem now and I want to standby him. The problem is he is still married (but been separated for 5years now). Separated means they never communicate or see each other already. Also, he always tell me that he love me but he don’t want me to be involved with his problem. He also told me that what if he die what will happen to me? It’s like he’s pushing me away because of the situation he’s in now. What do I do?
If you're unhappy in a relationship and choose to stay then (you) are choosing to be unhappy. The only person you have control over is yourself. If you're not getting whatever it is you want and need in a relationship then move on.
There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships. We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them (as is) or move on.
The choice is up to us!
People don't "change" unless (they) are unhappy.
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