Talking dirty

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   Mamelodyposted 8 years ago

   My friend came over to my place today and she said her boyfriend always wants her to talk dirty to him during sex but she hasn't got a clue what to say.. actually neither do I!!
   
   Help me out.. what do I tell her..

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      logic,commonsenseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Tell her to start out with, "you are so muddy, your hands are filthy and you haven't bathed in months!"
      Then follow it up with, "your toes are gross, your hair is so greasy!"
      See how hot that gets him!

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      wsp2469posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Honestly?  Tell her to start out slow and pay attention the words he uses.  I also would encourage her to pay attention to the type of porn--if any--her BF watches/reads.  Of course, there's also the obvious talk to him about it.
      I like ALL kinds of nasty talk as long as it sounds sincere.
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      if she feels uncomfortable it won't sound sincere and probably won't help.
      If I get banned for talking dirty though I am coming back as a puppet and I will haunt you forever!

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   Hokeyposted 8 years ago

   Here you go.
   
   www.youtube.com/watch?v=YfCPvKIsXI0

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   Mamelodyposted 8 years ago

   cheers man.. very helpful.. hopefully I won't be labelled a sexual deviant

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   Hokeyposted 8 years ago

   nah....  not you..... 
   
   
   
                      

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   Mamelodyposted 8 years ago

   "I love your ickle wickle 8 ml attachment" HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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      wsp2469posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      ml or INCH?

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   lyricsingrayposted 8 years ago

   Its not what to say rather how to say it.  And if it's rehearsed or planned ahead of time, he'll know.  Let it come naturally, let go and the words will come.  Allow yourself permission to express yourself and you won't need anyone's advice.  Hope that makes sense girl xo
   

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      logic,commonsenseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Can you give us some examples?

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         wsp2469posted 8 years agoin reply to this

         Yeah, give us some examples, Kim!
         
         Seriously, that is one of the points I was trying to make, too.  If she doesn't feel comfortable saying it then it won't sound sincere.
         It's one thing, for example, to do role-play and have a script regarding the parts and the action BUT "lines" have to come from within and be natural or sincere.
         "Lick my boots, boy!"  "Lick my boots, scum" "lick my boots, b*tch" all send the same message but what is she more comfortable calling her bf: boy, scum or b*tch, for example.
         uh
         not that
         I am saying I am into that kinda thing
         it's an example
         yeah
         ok I have to go write a hub
         eh
         yeah bi
         d@mn, Mariska Hargatay!

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