love advice

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  1. Stevennix2001 profile image87
    Stevennix2001posted 8 years ago

    what was the best advice  you ever gotten when it came to love?  or what advice have you given?

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      Justine76posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      be honest
      and communicate
      do not let life get in the way, always take time for the little things

      THE hugest things I thought I didnt need.

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    Lecieposted 8 years ago

    don't go out with the first guy to ask. then you get the rep. for being easy. make the guys wait and show them you want something serious.

  3. Rafini profile image86
    Rafiniposted 8 years ago

    People don't come to me for emotional support/advice.  I am willing to give it, if given the chance, but the chance doesn't come along much.

    The best advice I got was the worst advice I got.  Unfortunately, it came from my ex-mother-in-law, and it was geared toward me "understanding" her son and his behavior.  She was waaay off the mark!!

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    pinkyleeposted 8 years ago

    live life the way you want to even if in the long run it seems wrong because at that very moment it was right.

    don't look at just the line in the forest but look beyond that line and see what you are really getting into. (the saying can't see the forest for the trees)

    trust no one until they give you a reason to trust them

    love like you will never love again, laugh like no one cares, live like its your last day

    don't take people for granted if you dont want to be taken for granted

    never ever under any circumstances LIE

    if you arent happy with your mate tell them instead of finding pleasure elsewhere


    thats just a few i have gotten and given

    1. Rafini profile image86
      Rafiniposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      i like this advice.  wink

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        pinkyleeposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        thanks

  5. samboiam profile image60
    samboiamposted 8 years ago

    Best advice I have ever received came from the pastor who performed our weddimg. He said, "If you're going to fight, and you will, fight naked.

    1. Rafini profile image86
      Rafiniposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      oh my!   lol

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      Justine76posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      lol
      very good advice!! I intend to use it.  thank you for sharing!!

      1. brianzen profile image60
        brianzenposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        Worry more about being kind than being right, was my favorite.

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          Justine76posted 8 years agoin reply to this

          hmmmmm
          that is good, but thats kinda one of those one sided things that eventually gets old. It would be awesome if both people had that view. But its not posssable to hold that one up by yourself, trust me.

          1. brianzen profile image60
            brianzenposted 8 years agoin reply to this

            You do not know  too many people like me, I make it work out of love for someone who hasn't quite got the hang of it yet. All I ever really want for me emotionally  is well provided. So I can afford to be good.

        2. Rafini profile image86
          Rafiniposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          I agree it's good, but also think it wouldn't last for long with some.

    3. samboiam profile image60
      samboiamposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      It works. I have been married for 19 years.


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      1. Faybe Bay profile image69
        Faybe Bayposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        If i ever fall in love again, I will try that out samboiam.

        I was told by a couple who had been married sixty years: Always hold hands. People hold hands in the beginning, but then it changes, you put your arm around the other and walk that way awhile; too soon you are side by side with no contact at all. He said there are more nerve endings in your fingertips, and always holding hands becomes a way of communication. You can instantly tell if something is wrong, just by the way that hand moves in your hand. You can feel when the other person is afraid, or angry or content.

        But that is a lot of work, I vote for Samboiam, if you're gonna fight, fight naked. big_smile

  6. samboiam profile image60
    samboiamposted 8 years ago

    Here is a piece of advice I give husbands. You can either be right or you can be happy. Being right is highly over rated.

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      Justine76posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      haaahahahahhaaa
      it works for wives too!  wink

  7. A.C. Sylvester profile image59
    A.C. Sylvesterposted 8 years ago

    The more you let your guard down and let yourself be vulnerable in a relaitonship... the more you will experience the beauty of love.

    There's a direct correlation.

 
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