What is the best piece of relationship advice you have given to someone?

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   midget38posted 12 years ago

   What is the best piece of relationship advice you have given to someone?

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   dashingscorpioposted 12 years ago

   There are only two ways to experience peace and true happiness in relationships.
   We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have.
   People change when (they) want to change. The goal is to find somone who (already is) what you want. There is no "right" or "wrong" only "agree" or "disagree".
   Ultimately we are all looking for someone who (naturally agrees) with us on the major things in life. "There is no amount of  (communication) or (work) that can overcome being with someone who does NOT want what you want."

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      midget38posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      True that we can't force people to change....what we should do is find someone, be it in love or other areas, who agrees with us on things.

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   lostdogrwdposted 12 years ago

   for women to say yes to any and everything that there  man or husband want or need. if marry you can tell what ever you want to other men but beside that always say yes to the man. this world will be a lot better.

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   Virtuous1posted 12 years ago

   with any relationship you must take your time to know a person.

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      midget38posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Indeed, there are just so many things to know!

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   josh3418posted 12 years ago

   Be who you really are, no one likes a mask-wearing fake who pretends to be more or less than who she/he really is.  Being fake shows a distrustful person and one who is willing to deceive to get their own ways,  This becomes very dangerous with in a relationship, especially if the relationship is started off that way.  The best advice I can give is to be straightforward with who you really are and not to form walls of pretentious deception.   Great question Michelle!

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      midget38posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Indeed, bad to start relationships based on lies, Limerick Man. Always be true to yourself and the other person....when you deceive others, you deceive yourself.....and start living your own lie. Not possible to start relating to others that way!

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   Ciel Clarkposted 12 years ago

   Pay attention to how how your person treats and talks about his or her previous relationships.

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      midget38posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Good point, tells you how your partner will treat his relationship with you!

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   edhanposted 12 years ago

   Treasure what you are given and share.
   
   It is be giving and sharing in relationship that helps each other to grow in lives. Till now, my friends and their wives are still happily married and enjoying their lives travelling.

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      midget38posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Excellent advice!

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   libby1970posted 12 years ago

   To be sure that person is the right person. Getting with the wrong person can be devistating. If you can trust this person completely without any reserve and can see they truly love you then  you are good to go.
   
   Always love with all you have to give and the rewards are endless.

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      midget38posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Indeed, and establishing that always requires time and effort! Must be willing to put it in!

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   lovendarposted 12 years ago

   The best piece of relationship advice i gave to my friend was that I said him, if the girl and you think differently and likes differently then it doesn't mean that you can't be good friends. The choices, taste, thinking and likings can be the different but the attention, attraction and the chemistry may be the same. So, in this way they are now best friends. They date on every weekends and living their life at best.

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