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What Women Are Looking For When Online Dating
How to Meet Women Online
Men go to online dating sites to meet women. So it should probably shouldn't come as a surprise that women are there to meet men. A lot of men seem to go into online dating under the impression that the women there are just curious or playing games and aren't really there to meet anybody. In some cases this may be true, but most women are there because they want to meet a man. If you are struggling to meet women online it may be because you haven't shown them that you possess the qualities they are looking for. There are certain things that almost all women want in a man, if you can show them that you have these qualities you are far more likely to be successful.
A confident man is always attractive to women, if you want to be successful with women you need to show them that you have confidence. There is a difference between being confident and being arrogant and a lot of men don't seem to realize this. Actually arrogance is usually what happens when men are trying to cover up their lack of confidence. You can't fake confidence, you either have it or you don't.
Confidence is about being comfortable with who you are, not about trying to be something that you aren't.
Women also like positive happy people. Nobody wants to be around somebody who is always negative or depressed. If you are cheerful and optimistic people will be naturally attracted to you. Again this is one of those things that you can't fake, you need to actually be positive and happy.
Women are also going to expect you to communicate with them, they are going to want to know what you are thinking and feeling. It may be ok to sit with the guys and rarely talk, but this isn't going to go over with women. Women like to talk and they are going to expect you to contribute something to the conversation. They also expect you to listen and actually be interested in what they have to say.
Women have certain expectations of men, if you can't meet these expectations you are going to struggle with dating. This is especially true of online dating since you will have to show them that you can be what they are looking for without actually meeting them in person. If you can't interest her by email there is little chance that you will get to meet her face to face.