In the moment! Each space in time can bring either negative or positive occurances. To antisipate a moment would eventully cause anxiety. I live life by the day I am in. Not that I dont plan some experiences ahead of time as humans do normally. Buy each day has its own battels and victories.
occurances (occurences), antisipate (anticipate), eventully (eventually) dont (don't), Buy (But), battlels (battles) - one short paragraph with seven typos. If you want people to listen to what you have to say, you should learn to spell first.