my sister used to dress me in lingerie when i was younger. im now in the closet,

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    ricckkyyinpinkposted 7 years ago

    my sister used to dress me in lingerie when i was younger. im now in the closet,an would like to...

    come out. any ideas??

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    kjchicposted 7 years ago

    I don't think being dressed in lingerie had anything to do with you being gay if that's what you are implying. Maybe made you realize it sooner.

    Only you know what the best way to relate to your friends and family is and how they'd react.  I don't think you need to make a big show if it.  Be respectful of who you are.  It's a bit scary because reactions are unpredictable in these situations, but as long as you love yourself the words will come easier.  Coming out is probably the hardest thing you will do in life, so I respect you and what you are faced with.  Good luck, and stay positive no matter the outcome.

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    Nick Bposted 7 years ago

    If you mean come out as TV or TG I don't think it would be that difficult, but do remember that to many this is out of the ordinary. Bringing this out in the open may not be what your friends and family want to hear.

    I would suggest a certain amount of caution and maybe even confessing to a friend; someone you can trust to get an opinion of how the others may view what you are proposing.

    I don't want to sound all doom and gloom, but if you're really set on bringing this out in the open, be prepared and don't assume that everyone will readily accept it. Then, if they do, you will be pleasantly surprised.