I'm not sure if that's the way to say if and I feel really silly asking it but I'd like to know. I work with someone who gave off a rude impression to me and it has not improved. I've tried giving her a couple of chances because we do work together so we might as well get along but she is just rude and easily irritable. I've even confronted her but she didn't even let me finish talking. Just the sight of her or hearing her name makes me angry. And I don't want to look or feel mad. How can I stop?