Bearing False Witness

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   Deborah Sextonposted 14 years ago

   Gossip Is Bad but giving untrue Witness against someone is the worst....
   
   Recently on another thread I posted a comment which is here
   http://hubpages.com/forum/topic/37850?page=8#post866006
   
   The other hubber posted this comment
   http://hubpages.com/forum/topic/37850?page=8#post866028
   
   But then the thread was closed and I couldn't reply to her.
   
   Because I respect and like Tantrum I didn't want her to think I was saying Nice in a good way..
   So I posted her a message which said
   "Tantrum..I couldn't post to you on the other thread because they deleted it but I want you to know when I said "Nice"
   I was being rhetorical and didn't mean nice in a good way. I don't want you to think I am cruel"
   
   But when I posted this many people came in and said unkind things and wanted to know what I was talking about..My comment back to them was that Tantrum will understand..
   They told me because I posted it I had to tell them..
   
   I was told by hubpages not to post personal messages..I was told by others I couldn't post a note on the forums so I deleted my comments...
   
   Others told Tantrum I had a problem with her or something to that affect....I had no problem...yet now I can't prove it.
   
   Gossip Is Bad but giving untrue Witness against someone is the worst....I can't believe the remarks made to me....

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      earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I must be getting tired. I could not work this out. I am sure you did not say anything mean Deborah, so I will just accept what you have said. Must be past my bedtime!

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         Deborah Sextonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Thanks Earnest..I have always thought honesty is a virtue and have no reason to lie.
         
         What time is it there?
         It's 5:31 AM here.

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            earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            wow! It is 10pm here in Melbourne.

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               Deborah Sextonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Well..got to get ready for work now..I will be working while you are sleeping...lucky you.

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                  earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  A very early start there Deborah. I do feel very lucky not to face your job, that is for sure. I have the utmost respect for your profession. You guys are real heroes (and heroines of course)
                  When I had my cancer ops it was the nurses who were straight with me, kept me entertained and laughing, stood up to doctors for me, and saw me back to good health. More power to you lovely lady. Go getem! Theatre work must be rewarding too.

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                     Deborah Sextonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     I wish I had been your nurse...

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                        earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        I would have liked that!

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                           Deborah Sextonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           Oh..do you have an accent like Steve Erwin? did...

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                              earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              I am afraid so! Accents vary a little, and some are broader than others.

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                                 Deborah Sextonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                 I loved his accent and I really liked him. I was very sorry he died..Such a freak accident.

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                                    earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                    I admired him too. He was a great animal lover, and the accident was quite unusual. Stingrays are usually pretty safe to be around. I stood on ones back accidently pushing a boat off an Island once. He just took off. I also share his love of crocodiles.
                                    Crocs are really honest animals. They see you as the contents of a sandwich. You can see it in their eyes!

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                                       Deborah Sextonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                       I'm rolling on the floor now..

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   AEvansposted 14 years ago

   I am sure she will understand and read this thread

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      Deborah Sextonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you, yes we already spoke about it...Love her...
      
      Thanks again for reassuring me.

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         yoshi97posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         It's often best to handle these issue through personal emails as others tend to get involved without knowing the full spectrum of things ... and that often leads to a lot of misunderstandings.
         
         Tantrum's a good gal, so I already assumed you two would work things out, so this advice is more for those who would follow.
         
         If you ever have a misunderstanding with a fellow hubber take it to email, be cordial, and work it out amongst youselves, rather than allow a chorus of many forums members to cross your signals.

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            Deborah Sextonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            There was nothing to work out with Tantrum   but thanks anyway.

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         AEvansposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         She has a large heart, her and I have had our indifferences but she is still a great person, it is always nice to have someone edgy and I give that to her. Hubpages would be odd if she were not here.

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            Deborah Sextonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            We didn't have a problem..The others told her I had a problem but I have provided links to what happened.
            I didn't tell the others what my post was about so they started stuff with me.

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