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Is Virginity Dignity or Lack of Opportunity?

  1. Ez Kay profile image62
    Ez Kayposted 5 years ago

    i still wonder why i let him use and dump me... now am getting married, i don't know what to tell my husband on the night i am spoken for... he has trusted me so much and...

    1. EmpressFelicity profile image83
      EmpressFelicityposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Is that you in your avatar pic?  'Cos if it is, I'm getting very, very confused lol

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        Motown2Chitownposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Me too, Empress.  So very.

  2. Greek One profile image80
    Greek Oneposted 5 years ago

    virginity is a special gift that you can only give away once..

    it is a wonderful flower in the midst of weeds..

    it is the cherry, so to speak, on top of your Sundae.

    It should be saved until marriage.  I myself have been married for many years, and I still have not given this gift to my wife.  I am planning to share myself with her on our 10th anniversary.  There will be wine, a romantic dinner, video camera, etc.

    I can hardly wait for that special 5 minutes to come (pun intended)

    1. CMHypno profile image88
      CMHypnoposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Your wife is such a lucky woman, Greek One! How many years to go before the most precious 5 minutes of her life? But even with your special talents, will you be able to eat your dinner, down an bottle of wine, switch on the camera and totally fulfil your woman's every carnal expectation in 5 minutes?

      1. Greek One profile image80
        Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        who said anything about filling the woman's needs??

        1. CMHypno profile image88
          CMHypnoposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Explains why she's willing to wait 10 years!!!!! tongue

          1. RachaelLefler profile image93
            RachaelLeflerposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            OMG best. forum thread. ever!

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      klarawieckposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I thought the kid was yours!

  3. IzzyM profile image85
    IzzyMposted 5 years ago

    It's lack of opportunity for me. I'm a Born Again Virgin!

    1. CMHypno profile image88
      CMHypnoposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Same here Izzy - George Clooney would need to bring a bottle of champagne and a can of WD40 to loosen all the rust!

      1. IzzyM profile image85
        IzzyMposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        No, if Geoge Clooney walked into my life looking for coffee or whatever, trust me I would not need WD40 LOL

  4. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 5 years ago

    Virginity Dignity is religious based ignorance and has nothing to do with a lack of opportunity.

    Being a virgin at the time of marriage is solely based on the irrationality of religion based morals. Religion puts a false price on virginity, as though it is something sacred.

    If a woman chooses to have sex before marriage, it doesn't make her any less moral and does not change her appeal.

    If a man choose to have sex before marriage, it doesn't make him any less moral and doesn't change his appeal, either.

    The prize bestowed on virginity solely points out one's ignorance and inexperience in understanding life itself.

    1. RachaelLefler profile image93
      RachaelLeflerposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Being a virgin at the time of marriage was just a way the Catholic Church tracked people and cut down on illegitimate births to cut down on property inheritance disputes. Same reason they made priests celibate. But they failed, so many popes had illegitimate children and priests can't even keep their hands off of little boys because they have all this pent up boner energy they can't use to fight a holy war anymore! LMAO (my bf's catholic and I like to make fun of him)

      1. RachaelLefler profile image93
        RachaelLeflerposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        But it's telling the percentage of Christians who use birth control and have premarital sex. It's definitely a majority.

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    Home Girlposted 5 years ago

    Opportunity is always there, you just have to be careful not to drop your cherry at the wrong place and time. You never know who might pick it up! big_smile

    1. IzzyM profile image85
      IzzyMposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Or what you might pick up!

 
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