It can't be an absolute concrete list, imo. Even though I've worked as a therapist (with both conditions), i would not try to pin it down to one set of symptoms/behaviors here. The descriptions - symptoms, behaviors - of many psychiatric conditions overlap. It's one reason I find labels dysfunctional. I prefer to check with medical professionals to rule out physical causes, have family get the medications as docs see fit for the patient, and then deal with the behaviors that I see and that are reported by the patient and family members.
Of course, sufferers of either condition here on HubPages may still be able to help you with their descriptions and I'll be interested to read them.
Best wishes to you for health and peace. I'd get another opinion from a less sketchy doc.