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How can I be patient with my boyfriend not wanting to "officially" move in with me just yet?


My bf of over 1.5 yrs has recently begun to “live” with me, I am 27, he is 30. I own a 3 br house and often struggle to pay the bills. We share house chores and he sleeps there 7 days a week, keeping his apt. basically as “storage.” When I ask him to move in with me he keeps saying he’s not ready yet, he had lived with a girlfriend before and it didn’t work out. I like having him around, but it also annoys me seeing him waste money while I struggle to pay the for the house alone. I am feeling frustrated and I fear that I am pushing him away by bringing it up. What should I do?

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