What's The Best Way To Deal With A Crush?

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   CrazedNovelistposted 11 years ago

   What's The Best Way To Deal With A Crush?
   
   What's the best way to deal with a crush? Especially a new friend to whom you find yourself growing attached to? What's the best course of action??

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   Danweposted 11 years ago

   Hi there! So you have a crush and I guess that your mind is flooded with her all day long. Or at least most of the time. You feel great around her but you don't know how to move on.
   
   If it continues like that, chances are that you will miss a few things while in this state. I would advice you to clear things up.
   
   Call her or set a date with her and tell her about your feelings. I KNOW it sounds very intimidating but trust me, once you made it, you will feel free. If she doesn't feel the same way, well she might in future, you never know. And you will have a piece in mind because you know where you are - you will not be wondering and thinking about where you could be. Crucial thing is to clarify that whether she does feel the same way or not, you are OK with it.
   If she feels the same way then great!
   So the question is, can you be honest with her and mainly with yourself? Can you take the action now and feel great no matter what outcome is or dream about what could have been if...
   
   Daniel

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   Lord De Crossposted 11 years ago

   How do you deal with a crush. Were you ready? Is this crush mutual or just infatuated. Here we discuss the dating game at its earliest state. read more

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      CrazedNovelistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks De Cross. That really helped me a lot!! Was not expecting an entire hub as answer, but that definitely makes it the best. See you around the hubs!

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   Cristaleposted 11 years ago

   I remember the days of having a crush...It's so hard because you are not sure how the other person feels and you don't want to ruin a good friendship. I would base it off of the other person. If they send you vibes that feel like maybe they feel the same, say some thing. But if you get vibes that are confusing, try talking about it in a friendly manner. Drop subtle hints, and go from there.

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      squarestudiosposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Crush it.
      
      Attachment leads to unhealthy cravings for acceptance.
      
      You should pave your own path- and pave it wide enough for those who you want with you on your journey. If they don't want to walk your path, then it wasn't meant to be.

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   squarestudiosposted 11 years ago

   
   
   Crush it.
   
   Attachment leads to unhealthy cravings for acceptance.
   
   You should pave your own path- and pave it wide enough for those who you want with you on your journey. If they don't want to walk your path, then it wasn't meant to be.

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