She said that she loves me, but I don't know if I feel the same way. What do I d

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  1. Drew nite profile image61
    Drew niteposted 11 years ago

    She said that she loves me, but I don't know if I feel the same way. What do I do now?

  2. profile image0
    scrambleposted 11 years ago

    Be truthful. It will be easier in the long run.

  3. wordsscriber profile image60
    wordsscriberposted 11 years ago

    What if the roles were reversed?  What would you expect?

  4. Emissionguy profile image74
    Emissionguyposted 11 years ago

    If its not a definite YES, then its a no. Don't be guilted into lying. Best for everyone to keep it real.

  5. angel115707 profile image60
    angel115707posted 11 years ago

    If you do not know, you don't deserve her. She doesn't want you to wonder if you love her, she wants you to need her, fight for her, be determined to get her despite the odds, do insain things for her, just because you cannot get enough of her....if you can't love her like need to move on, and let her find the man who does...eventually you will find the girl that makes you go wild...don't make the mistake of hurting her...and you a mother with two kids, whose father left last me, you don't want her to go through that... I know my X settled, complacent and unsure, got me pregnant, and from there we tried for years to work, what could not work...

  6. ReesasakaGaara profile image60
    ReesasakaGaaraposted 11 years ago

    Life is full of twisted and turns but sometimes you have to straighten them out on your own, so thats exactly what you should do. Really evaluate inside; if you broke up with her and she dated someone else: would you be jeoulous??? Right NOW you might say no, but you really have to think about it. But, for the most part tell her how you feel, but dont be rude with how you say it.

  7. stricktlydating profile image86
    stricktlydatingposted 11 years ago

    Tell her how you do feel about her, for example if you have strong feelings for her or if you're feeling unsure, afraid of love or whatever it is you feel that you ARE sure about.  Or if you realise you aren't in love you may need to let her go - It's hard to keep a relationship alive where one person is in love and the other is not, it causes frustration and insecurities...

  8. JulieMcDaniel profile image60
    JulieMcDanielposted 11 years ago

    tell her the truth. thell her that you want to feel the same way but you want it to happen naturaly and do not want to feel forced into it.

  9. Drew nite profile image61
    Drew niteposted 11 years ago

    Thank you all! You made some really great points. When it comes down to it, I just have to be honest. You know what, I was afraid that I would hurt her feelings if I told the truth, but it would be even worst for both of us if I lead her on. It takes two to be in love, and once you say it, you have to mean it, for that will bring even more hurt and confusion if you don't. Thank you once again

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    jasper420posted 11 years ago

    you need to tell her leading her on is wrong

  11. twogroce profile image60
    twogroceposted 11 years ago

    You have to be honest and truthful to yourself first them her. But before you tell her (depending on what it is ) you may want to make sure she doesn't have anything in her a skillet


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