How Do You Handle Someone With a Hot Temper?

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   cyoung35posted 10 years ago

   How Do You Handle Someone With a Hot Temper?
   
   Once in a while you come accross someone with a short fuse. When you upset them they tend to get combative. Some like to push buttons while others tend to back away. How do you handle these types of people?
   
   

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   dailytop10posted 10 years ago

   i deal with them through kindness. I truly believe that all of us were born good. Though some may end up cruel and selfish as they grow up, we can't deny the fact that at least a drop of goodness is still hidden deep within their hearts.

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   Bk42authorposted 10 years ago

   When I have to deal with them I try to be as nice as possible, you never know why people are the way they are or what they're going through. For the most part I try not to voluntarily spend time around them. I spent most of my life around people with bad tempers and I'm over it, so I try to avoid them.

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   Dave36posted 10 years ago

   Whenever i come across any negative person i just remind myself, that they can't help being like that as they have no self control....I won't argue with any one as only a fool argues, & i always try to be positive back....I won't let anyone walk all over me, but i will feel empathy for them....I see them as good practice for me to see if i react negatively back, & with practice nothing anyone says or the way they act can bother me....They still pop up every now & again, & all i ever see them as is practice for me!lol

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   DDEposted 10 years ago

   It is difficult when that happens often I would just stay away from the short tempered or don't push any buttons that would make that person feel so hot tempered.

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      Dave36posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Don't avoid those people DDE as it's not them, that causes the unwanted feelings/emotions you might feel when they have a go at you etc..It's how we ourself chose to react, that causes the unwanted feelings/emotions..Just see them as practice for you

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