I cannot speak for me here but as for women I don't wait for sex and do not need it for enjoyment in my life. Not that it isn't fun and all but I get far less enjoyment from sex as I do from other areas of my life and could be very happy if something were to happen to my husband meaning we could no longer have sex. Just so long as we can cuddle when watching telly and enjoy nice meals and basically just enjoy each others company, with or without sex.
I don't think it is wise to generalize about people, I mean I would consider myself pretty common. The thing is, no two people are ever exactly the same, not even my twin brothers.
You might be able to get away with saying that in youth a majority of people seem very motivated by sex and spend much of their time looking for sex and thinking about it. This is probable because it is hormonal and it is something new. When we are young we got all these hormones running through our systems and we have very little experience of sex and can imagine it as being more then it is in reality. We lack the experience to understand that it is more then just the physical act that makes it so enjoyable, it is something we may well come to understand after one or two less then world rocking experiences
Imagine how many people say that their first time was disappointing, that it was awkward and uncomfortable. I think we can build it up in our minds when we have no practical experience to form realistic opinions. As time goes on some will stay sex crazed, others will not.
Many women find me sexually attractive and exciting. I have no explanation for this as I consider myself just an ordinary guy. But I am a master of the art of seduction and satisfaction. I understand what women want,...