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   paradigmsearchposted 8 years ago

   I am not a social person.
   
   Reclusive I am I am.
   
   But I have decided to take one shot, and only one shot, at meeting a female who is as I am.

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      willmcwryterposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      try the bus station

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         paradigmsearchposted 8 years agoin reply to this

         Really? Not bad of an idea actually...

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            willmcwryterposted 8 years agoin reply to this

            lots of the ladies at the bus station don't even wear bras so you won't have to try to hard just brush your teeth and put on a clean shirt and carry some cigarettes and a lighter.  when one of the bus station ladies asks if you have a cigarette you can give her one of yours and strike up a romantic conversation.  read my romantic short story hub.  i know what i'm talking about.

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               paradigmsearchposted 8 years agoin reply to this

               You have an interesting history.

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                  DrMark1961posted 8 years agoin reply to this

                  Ah, to be a teenager again....

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                     paradigmsearchposted 8 years agoin reply to this

                     I need to pay more attention at the grocery store.
                     
                     But I would like one most strike here.
                     
                     But real deal about that.

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      SheilaMilneposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Too far, too far.

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         paradigmsearchposted 8 years agoin reply to this

         Alas, you are right.

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      Snakesmumposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Ah !  But are there actually any who meet your standards?

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         paradigmsearchposted 8 years agoin reply to this

         Societal there is. Ethical there is. Happy there is.
         
         Conclusion there is.

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      tsmogposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Meeting is easy. Discovering can be exhaustive. Spontaneously means being available somewhere the another also has interest. Perhaps the latter is a best choice? There are others too as shared here.
      
      As Jan shared if you like produce a Farmer's market is better than canned good store. Different clientele. You like writing perhaps a writer's group or conduct one yourself. Which has the greater propensity of attraction? Would not have to be ten week class . . . four will be about right.
      
      Sharing is I taught a few times a women's only Auto Preventative Maintenance class. A great attractor for my expertise. Motive of course must be considered . . .
      
      Those looking for a quick fix and were gone with the blink of an eye
      Those interested in high performance zooming along to quickly
      Those with a fixer-upper asking more than the class provided
      and, those who drove a classic too.

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   RJ Schwartzposted 8 years ago

   Try Book Stores, Thrift Shops, or similar places where people can browse for extended periods of time without being kicked out - you'll identify those who might be worth your time

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   paradigmsearchposted 8 years ago

   A real and curious meet. SoCal.

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   Bronwyn Joy Ellioposted 8 years ago

   paradigmsearch, from Dagobar are you?

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      paradigmsearchposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Looked up Dagobar, yes.

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   paradigmsearchposted 8 years ago

   Looking for an entity I am.

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   paradigmsearchposted 8 years ago

   One as me.

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   jansharesposted 8 years ago

   Skip regular grocery stores, become a regular at farmer's markets and organic grocers. Maybe someone will notice you.

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   Kathryn L Hillposted 8 years ago

   HP Project:
   The Bachelor: posting thread for paradigmsearch
                          contestants / in-house
                          screening requirement: answer question, "Are you as he?"
   
   Contestant:
   #1 "Why yes, I am."   in.
   #2  "I could be, if I can figure out what he is!"   out.
   #3 "Well, of course, I am."   in.
   #4 "No."  out.
   #5 "I'm sure I am."  in.
   #6 "Maybe ... not sure."   out.
   
   ( )

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      paradigmsearchposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      You have my attention.

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         Kathryn L Hillposted 8 years agoin reply to this

         Thanks, fellow soul.

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            paradigmsearchposted 8 years agoin reply to this

            Proceed?

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