Should I purchase my girlfriend a vibrator?

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pylos26posted 14 years ago
For reducing tediousness while I’m away, of course.
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  tksenseiposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  If that's the issue, don't bother. Just start looking for a new girlfriend.
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  pylos26posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  And this advice comes from one who perhaps just simple held an aspirin between the knees while he was away?
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  cosetteposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  why do you assume she needs one, or even wants one? that seems to be a very personal choice. some women (myself included) don't even like those things. i just don't understand the attraction, actually
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  pylos26posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm sorry if I have failed to answer all the questions asked of me. I just wanted to know if it would be appropriate (in your opinion) if i should and I gave my reason for the venture. I don't know if she needs one.
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  wyanjenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  More the reason not to surprise her... tread carefully...
  Don't buy the soft jelly ones in any case. They are poisonous...
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  gerimancht789posted 6 years agoin reply to this
  I will buy the best vibrator as a gift for her ,if she like or want !
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  Francesca mcbarronposted 5 years agoin reply to this
  Hell, yes, of course!!!
  Seriously, get her many, encourage her sexuality and never ever be scared of what she experiences because you never cage a spirited wild imagination
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tantrumposted 14 years ago
yes !
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  L. Andrew Marrposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Haha, why are you so quick to reply Tant?
  
  One to read deeply into this
  
  HAHA
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
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earnestshubposted 14 years ago
Nah. Let her pick it herself.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  But it's a nice surprise! A nice present !
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  maudine_05posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LOL!!! yeah, because she may not like the color or the size may not fit hers, be safe let her do it herself!
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L. Andrew Marrposted 14 years ago
HAHAHAHAHA

Love the randomness of this hub!
It is a breath of fresh air from all the religious hubs =P

Umm, go for it if you think she'll take it as a joke. If not then expect a slap.

=]
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EYEAM4ANARCHYposted 14 years ago
She already has one. She just doesn't want to make you feel self-conscious.
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lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago
If she wants one it's only fair to get her one or two one for her own pleasures and the other for you to share in pleasure. Dude what's up with the question anyways?
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  lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Is anyone buying this joke?
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  Beth100posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  No, but vibrator sales are up!
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  L. Andrew Marrposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  HAHA yeah, I just read it. Nicely put
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  pylos26posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Soliciting your response, of course.
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lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago
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Ivorwenposted 14 years ago
NO! Receiving one was the worst gift ever... (shhhhh! don't tell my husband!) *Ahem* may I suggest a book she has wanted, or a couple of movies?
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L. Andrew Marrposted 14 years ago
I read a statistic the other day -

Only 20% of women admit to mastubate,

However, 80% of women admit they occasionally tell white lies...

Just something to think about...
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yes! Orgasmic white lies.
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  fishtiger58posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LOL
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Ivorwenposted 14 years ago
...saying 'thank you' was a white lie...
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L. Andrew Marrposted 14 years ago
Of course, you could always read into the fact that you are willing to buy her a vibrator as an insecurity about yourself?

Can you really be replaced by a machine?

I AM ROBOT!!!
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  lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
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H.C Porterposted 14 years ago
Go to the Adult Novelty Store together and see if she finds one she believes she will enjoy. This way you can see what kind of stimulation arouses her (perhaps use it together when you are not away). If she has no interest in the items or the store-take her to go get a book and a warm sweater to keep her warm and occupied while you are away.
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  L. Andrew Marrposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Or, best of both worlds, erotic novel.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Erotic Novel???? - id rather have the vibrator...and perhaps the book for after
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  and ther are a lot of good neighbours too !
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  pylos26posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  The second half of your response is so appealing i might just do that...think it will let me escape from the shark lady?
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caravalhophotoposted 14 years ago
Yes...but you might want to let her pick it out when you are not around. She might want a different shape or size and feel a little shy about purchasing in you presence.

Plus, there are so many other toys beyond the vibrators that she may suprise you with...fun!
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  L. Andrew Marrposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Why did I wince at this?
  It's times like this I'm glad I'm single.
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pylos26posted 14 years ago
It may be that i've opened pandora's box...uhh...I may panic and run away.
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Michael Willisposted 14 years ago
Uh,no! What if she likes it better?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  if the job is being done right- men shouldnt worry about their women 'playing'-having a warm body is preferred to having batteries...
  BESIDES-
  'playing' keeps from 'straying' when your not around
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  pylos26posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Now that's just hypothetical.
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  No it is not! If a guy buys a sex toy, the woman gets all irate at a man! I call that hypocritical from a woman. Altho....it does depend on the man I guess.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Why when a woman has a sex toy, the man has to question the usage of the toy? Are men afraid of a toy replacing them?
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  logic,commonsenseposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I prefer to be their toy! It would hard to replace me!
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I mean AFTER ALL....most women I know are not threatened by the fact that men have their "toys" (in fact 2 in most cases) with them at ALL times...and in some cases use them while we are in the next room. So, any man should be threatened by a woman having a toy beeeccaaaauuuuusssseee??????
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lolol, it is called "MALE EGO!"
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  GOT IT!!! At least you are honest.
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lol, well yeah! We men are really not that hard to understand!
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  mega1posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hey Stimp - I'm a day late - but I brought your latte - decaf, extra eggnog whipped cream with a sprinkle of nutmeg. Right?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  i dont think that they should be threatened... but for some men-its a problem when they come to realize a woman actually uses it when they are alone...
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  That's my point....why should it bother them when we as women, KNOW, men are "doing it" alone. What's the double standard. I don't get it.
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  Laura Thykesonposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  My ex bought me one once and then got jealous of the damn thing! He thought I was using it all the time without him, LOLOL!!! (little did he know....)
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Wink Wink , Nudge Nudge
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  Laura Thykesonposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Just because I named it and everything...AAAhhh Mr. Pinky and I had such good times....
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lol- you only have one? i guess because i have been with the same guy for so long- i get my fill of variety from collecting the damn things...My husband now buys them for me.
  Its your birthday- Here's a waterproof purple one
  Its christmas- This one has 5 different speeds
  Anniversary- ooolaaalaaa, this one can get you to heaven in 5 minutes or less...lol...
  ahhh, memories
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  Laura Thykesonposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well...Mr. Pinky and I had to part ways-ex threw him away...and later I threw EX away!!! LOLOLOL
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  probably a good call
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  In some cases a fair question, but why do women get so upset if a man gets a "toy" and even sometimes a movie? I know we men are different than women, but women should know this about men.This is not New news! The "gate/door" gets closed for punishment or to try to control us and men will do what men will do. We are at a disadvantage!!!
  lol, what man ever "closes" his options up? Not being ugly...but men that I know and myself somewhat included do seem to have stronger "sex drive" than women do it seems. We want it when we want it and (there is scientific reports out there that says so also)and we have less self-control than women do.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Once again SOME men have a stronger sex drive- I myself, can EASILY stand up in comparison when it comes to drive.
  But what men don’t realize-it isn’t that our sex drive is lacking at all-when yawl want it and we say, we don’t, we are just pissed off at yawl and rather take care of driving our cars our selves.
  Or we are tired---and unless your a 1 or 2 minute man, at times the want for sleep takes over the want for sex- doesn’t mean I’m not in need.
  Movies??? Movies are cool... I don’t care if my guy has them- Ill watch them with him. Ive gone as far as putting one on for him when I am too tired to go there. I wish him good luck before I go off to sleep
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Sounds like you have some understanding of the MALE persona! I always loved the TV show According to Jim. He was crude alot, but...there is alot of truths in that show about the male-female situations.
  edit: Especially from the Male side of things!
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  And Everybody Loves Raymond....another great one....
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Welllllllll.....don't actually judge us men by Raymond. lolol We are more like Jim Belushi from his show.
  According to Jim should be an every woman's watch to learn about men!!! It may be comedy, but females could learn alot about men from this show.
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  What about Doug on King of Queens. He's kind of a knucklehead too.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  i dont know if i understand the male persona or i have convinced myself that, as long as i see things with little hidden meaning, it comes close to a males perspective on things. Ive figured out with my husband at least- things are never really complicated-yawl are pretty much cut and paste. You dont read between the lines-if I want it, dont whisper clues-shout orders... I could be wrong, but its worked for me so far
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Or just looking at them and whatever they are doing and go "WTF?" And that can take many meanings based on which of the the three words you emphasize. Or, when he hears the term "Soooo, let me ask you this....." He knows what's comin' next is not necessarily a question about hunting or football
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  well, duh.....we hate the words, "Let me ask you... or Can we talk?, or the dreaded....how do you feel about......EEKKKKK!!!!!!! lol
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  exactly-when we say WTF or can we talk- be assured it isnt about football-its about everything that you are doing wrong...lol
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  SNAP!
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Uh, huh....I see. We men are always in the wrong. lolol Well, not always! lol
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  no not always, but your simplicity against how complex we make situations- puts you in the wrong whether or not you got there on your own.
  It’s not what you say-it what you didn’t say...
  It’s not the how you meant it-its how it was perceived...
  It’s not the idea or intention that matters-it’s the conclusion and follow through...
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Very nicely put....{applause from the audience}
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  pylos26posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Walt whitman could not have written it better!
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  probably so-but the balls which dangle between his legs, may have given him a slightly different perspective
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  And I don't necessarily give him the option of answering the question "can we talk?" It's more like "Let me tell you sumpthin'....." hand up in his face "NOPE! I'm talkin' now, you'll get YOUR turn." After which he retires to the garage.
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lol, Yeah????
  I am loving this topic. Have to work tomorrow, yep on Sunday, but will be back to read more of these comments tomorrow afternoon. See you all later!!!!!
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  smokes in one hand, beer in the other, shoulders slumped.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lol
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  Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  There you go. Men are really not complicated. We are "built" differently. I guess you could call men more "physical" and women more "emotional/mental" in a lot of ways. lolol
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Stimpposted 14 years ago
ya knooooowwww.....guys like vibrators too and I'm not talkin' through the back door. Could be fun for both of you when you are together. Just sayin'.....
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Depends on the guy... My husband was so worried about me using one when he wasnt around-he began to hide all batteries, and when I asked him if I could have a battery or two-I had to answer 20 questions...
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Shadesbreathposted 14 years ago
Buy her an assortment of cucumbers first, get an idea of what she's looking for. You can make salad out of the rejects. Win, win.
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sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago
If your girlfriend really does that it's time for another girlfriend. You wouldn't want that type of person responsible for your children.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  your not making a movie while the kids watch... it is a private event... and if self pleasure makes a bad parent...Im not sure there is more than a dozen or so fit people to be parents...
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Thank you....
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Stimpposted 14 years ago
okey dokey....I'm out of this one.....
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Stimpposted 14 years ago
OK...sorry, no I'm back in......

Soooo, let me ask you this....you actually believe that if someone would be a bad parent if they "pleasure themselves". And, then so should I ASSUME that ALL men are going to be horrible with MY children.

I'm just wondering.
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  This is in direct response to a comment about finding a new girlfriend cuz she'd be a piece of crap for doing such a horrid thing and would be horrible around the children.....
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wyanjenposted 14 years ago
NO!

Don't buy her a toy.

A better idea is to take her shopping. Check out a few different stores. Make an afternoon out of it

If you try to guess what she might like, and you guess wrong, she will think you do not understand her at all. Very bad.

If you don't want to go with her, get a gift certificate. But let her pick out what she wants. You might wind up looking like a complete doofus. (Ask my ex )
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sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago
If you're referencing my comment, then yes. They have obviously made some real poor choices in their lives and have little, if any, control over their own behavior. That is not someone that should be considered a good canidate for parenthood.
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  But it's okay for men to do it...but their choices are fine? What poor choices, pray tell, would be a good example? I'm just wondering.
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sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago
It's not appropriate for either sex. No poor choice is a good example, If we make one we learn from it and don't do it again.
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Interesting way of looking at it. It is your opinion and I'll agree to disagree
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  As will I- I thought that the idea of self pleasure being a moral sin was left back in the 1950's, but with respect to your opinion, I will not argue my disagreement...
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  Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Ohhhhh.....I thought we were talking about people going BLIND and that's the reason for the inability to appropriately care for the children. Noooowwww I get it
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LMAO
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cindyvineposted 14 years ago
You mean you haven't bought her one yet? What planet are you from?
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sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago
No you don't get it.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I understand that being a chronic masturbator who has no control over their desires, wants and needs- would make them a poor candidate for Parent of the Year.
  I can see how someone making an adult film of themselves partaking in this activity while their children played aimlessly around them...would make them a less than responsible parent.
  I do not see, how masturbating alone-leaving no evidence of your activity for your children to discover, can lead to the conclusion that you are an irresponsible parent.
  If you have never placed your hands on yourself before or during sex-with the intention of stimulating yourself in preparation for sex or to continue sex, then...??? Okay????
  
  Like I said-I respect your opinion-but dont agree with it, or with you judging people that do enjoy self pleasure
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I understand that being a chronic masturbator who has no control over their desires, wants and needs- would make them a poor candidate for Parent of the Year.
  I can see how someone making an adult film of themselves partaking in this activity while their children played aimlessly around them...would make them a less than responsible parent.
  I do not see, how masturbating alone-leaving no evidence of your activity for your children to discover, can lead to the conclusion that you are an irresponsible parent.
  If you have never placed your hands on yourself before or during sex-with the intention of stimulating yourself in preparation for sex or to continue sex, then...??? Okay????
  
  Like I said-I respect your opinion-but dont agree with it, or with you judging people that do enjoy self pleasure
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Stimpposted 14 years ago
That's what she said....
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pylos26posted 14 years ago
Sounds like mr pinky was a gentleman and a scholar.
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sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago
I'm not judging you or anyone else. But if for example you are a good man have taken care of yourself, worked hard on your education and Job. Then you decide that you would like to start a family and you know the mother of your children will be their most important teacher and gaurdian while you're at work. Would you feel more comfortable with:

A. A party girl that loves the one she's with and has done so since puberty.

B. A woman who's not sure if she's gay or Bi but she knows for sure she likes sex toys.

C. A woman with experience who has done pretty much everything prior to marraige.

D. A woman who may have out of curiosity had a sexual relationship but understood the sanctity issue and decided to not go the direction of multiple sex partners.

E. A good Christian woman who was raised by loving parents that helped her learn the importance of her position in sociaty and wants to marry a man who shares her values.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I want my kids to know right from wrong and to make wise decisions based on what I have taught and shared with them about the world- I do not wish to ever make them feel as if I am to ridged of a woman to ever ask for advise, or for them to ever be afraid to turn to me when they are in trouble. I know that I am a good parent... I know that I have their best interest in mind every moment of every day. I am pretty sure that I am a more prepared parent, that values my children for being individuals and encourages them and helps their development more so than 90% of the population, and I own vibrators. I did not lose my virginity until I was 18. I’ve only had 3 partners in my life and only 2 of which could say I was a willing participant (my first and my husband)you can read about that on my hub- A Will to Survive...
  
  I would not want a Shrewd Christian Valued Woman with no informed perspective to guide my children. So all she can say to them is, "Do what I say-because I say it"... Id rather have the retired whore that can say, "You are better than what I did-make better choices"
  
  Someone to teach my children value (I was raised by my mother- a doctor/my father a business owner/two loving parents- who had 5 children-all of which are caring collected people-not one couple in my family has ever been divorced)- me.
  Someone to teach my children about the world (seen bad-seen sad-seen wonderful and kindness, and felt all as well)-me.
  Someone to teach my children of dangers which is part of our existence (don’t trust all-don’t doubt them either)-me.
  The value of education (I attended College, after graduating high school a year early, and have 2 Bachelors Degrees) -me
  The importance of waiting to have sex until you are ready to engage in sex-me
  (or ask about masturbating)-ME
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  Laura Thykesonposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  This reminds me of when I was little and I had heard "The F word" at school. I asked my dad what it mean't and his response was "Christians don't do that" (do what the word means, that is...)
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  caravalhophotoposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hey Sneako...
  
  turning your question around a little, this is what I want:
  
  A man who is clean, knows were the buttons are and how to finagle them to pleasure me and knows how to use the vibrator to pleasure us both...my ex husband was fumbler...glad I have a box of toys...may have cheated on him if I didn't.
  Don't need multiple sex partners, enjoy men (but I do love looking at women, I truely believe bodies are art)and prefer one with values and morals...
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hey Cara, I'm not too much for to crazy but when I was younger I was alittle wilder. I can appreciate your position and respect your opinion.
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  caravalhophotoposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I figured you were a wild young man Sneako...coffee???
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Among other things.
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pylos26posted 14 years ago
Sneako...Only a fool would get up off the floor again.
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tksenseiposted 14 years ago
Say wha?
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pylos26posted 14 years ago
Just an ole silly saying.
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sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago
A Shrewd Christian valued woman or do you mean A Christian woman that has values?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Christian has nothing to do with values. I have known Christians that are horrible people. People have values because they were taught values in their life-religion has absolutely nothing to do with measuring whether or not someone has values or how well they will raise their children. Masturbating does not mean that a person lacks value.
  Question though---when you stated-a woman that knows her place in society...What did you mean by that? What place is she suppose to take?
  May I also ask if you have children?
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yes a son. Mother and teacher first, if children are involved, then a career if she has the choice. She can choose to be president or welfare mother and anything in between.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  and you seriously believe that using a vibrator lessens a woman's ability to be a role model, mother and teacher for her children?
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  That would depend on the individual completely. If all things were equal and you had the knowledge about this then the one that didn't might be the better choice.
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cheaptrickposted 14 years ago
DR Ruth(a sex therapist)made this statement"If a women is not satisfied by her partner it is perfectly acceptable for her to Pleasure herself by Other means",thanks to her my girlfriend is now dating the Lawnmower...
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ralwusposted 14 years ago
Sex is an occasional pleasure but a cigar is always a smoke. Get her a cigar instead.
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nataliepressposted 14 years ago
You know you just want to watch...
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  Laura Thykesonposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Ah yes, someone finally said it! So true dear, that is so true...They love THAT!
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Laura Thykesonposted 14 years ago
I have an idea! Just get her one of those catalogs, leave it lying around, and if she wants one, she will order one. Also, on Directv, there is a very latenight shopping show called "Shop Erotic" and they sell things that look like miniature carnival rides with all of the lights and things they do...
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  maudine_05posted 14 years agoin reply to this
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prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago
you ask her first if she will use it,
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mega1posted 14 years ago
Seriously though, if you buy her a vibrator, what's in it for you? I know you're gonna say the joy of giving pleasure, but there could be more to it. Has she indicated any interest in one at all?
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Bovine Currencyposted 14 years ago
Got to ask... Does your girlfriend need a vibrator?
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Are you asking me?
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Colebabieposted 14 years ago
Sorry I missed most of this forum. Just got back from Thanksgiving vacation

I say go for it. If its something you've discussed and she wants one.

My boyfriend bought me mine
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  TMI!
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I don't think so. Just showing that at least one woman here has received that gift from her boyfriend and didn't find anything wrong with it.
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  My ears are bleeding! Is it all about you?
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Is what all about me?
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I don't know if you don't! Goin to bed, goodnight.
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Umm ok. Goodnight!
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Bovine Currencyposted 14 years ago
Nothing wrong with sex toys. Cat-o-nine tails is my fav
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shinujohn2008posted 14 years ago
If you buy a vibrator for your girl, it means you do not trust her. You think she will get attracted to someone else when you are not there. If you want to please her , when u are away, try phone sex.
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Umm not true.
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Bovine Currencyposted 14 years ago
This is getting a little serious for me. Its just a vibrator. If you need to think about it too much, don't buy it. I'll admit I thought this was a joke to begin with.
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I agree. Its not that serious. I didn't think it was a joke... its a legit question I guess. But I bet he knows his girl and whether or not its cool to buy her one. A group of strangers with a way different relationship isn't going to help him make a decision.
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AEvansposted 14 years ago
I believe everyone seems to have answered the question and the censor is in, lollo:D
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sullyosullyposted 6 years ago
Three word, Clone A Willy! (look it up)
She may love it, she may hate it but either way, assuming she has a sense of humor, hilarity will ensue
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S.K.posted 6 years ago
If your a sex-toy couple, then go for it! But if you guys prefer to go toy-less when your role-playing as amateur porn stars, then do not buy one. Most women prefer the real thing over a toy. You will just have to hurry and come home and help her with her hot-box...
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psycheskinnerposted 6 years ago
8 year old post, people
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  Aime Fposted 6 years agoin reply to this
  Maybe he’s been agonizing over the decision this whole time.
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  S.K.posted 6 years agoin reply to this
  Still a fun post to reply to tho... Lol!
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