So I went onto my FB accoutn to find that a "friend" wanted me to add her. She left me a message saying that she was hoping all is going well with me and that she hopes that me and my hubby are doing well and the she also hoped that we could stay in touch.
Ummmm....Not gonna happen! She wshowed me YEARS like 2004 I think it was years ago before I moved to Hawaii in 2007 that she didn't like anyone being happy and in love if she isn't happy and in love. And when I started dating my husband again back in 2003 I think it was she was all but happy to be a total b!tch to me. And now that her status reads in A relationship, she thinks that we can be all buddy buddy again.
She was also jealous of a friendship that I had with another girl, (another fake person but that is another long story)and she would glare at me in church whenever my other "friend" and I would go with my parents. *gag*
Oi! Gotta love the fake ppl don't ya think?
She could truly get medievil on your ass!
let me go get my sword...or maybe I'll go with the bow and arrow
OOOOOPS that was supposed to be 2003 haha finger slipped. there fixed it
Oh the fustration!!!!
My aunt, a fake person, called my up not long ago, wanting my to send a birthday wish to the person who was the BIGGEST b!tch to me all through out my school years.
Yep, gotta love the fake people!
Well Ms Crazdwriter, not sure you will like my insight on this, but I will give it just for the h*ll of it-
Fake people are everywhere. I have learned from trial and error-that people will usually bring you down if they can. Judge you when it serves them a purpose. Try to change you if you give them a chance.
But ultimately, it is up to you to allow it (or allow it to effect you). I have known a lot of fake people, who have asked for a second chance to be a real friend.
Some have turned out to be what they have promised, the second time around. Others have proven that the only change they are capable of making is becoming more in tune with how to manipulate to get what they want.
Either way- it is the better person to give a second chance. Just as long as you re-enter with eyes wide open.(Forgive-Not Forget the Past) People change, and people grow up when they realize that they have made mistakes and hurt 'friends' that were actually good, loving people.
Maybe her contacting you, is her way of saying-I messed up-I am sorry, I know I was wrong to be so cruel. She may have changed and become a more insightful, accepting, pleasant person? Maybe not. But without a second look at her as a potential friend, you will never know. And you may be the one who is going to miss out on something that could have been good for you.
If you want a cheesy analogy, I got one for this-
Friendships are like the chapters in a book-Some are great, uplifting and full of lessons-others are disappointments that can leave your heart hurting. But sometimes the characters from a disappointing chapter, come back later in the book-and turn out to be one of the stories valuable assets, and without them the book wouldn't be the same.
If I miss out then I miss out, H.C. but to me I doubt she has changed at all....I don't think it's coincedence that she contacted me years after because she is 'In A Relationship'. I wish I could believe that she had changed but I seriously doubt it.
you know her personally, so you know best-without knowing her, I cant say either way. But you are a smart girl-and you should trust your instincts about the situation. Just thought I would throw something out there for you to consider Dont hate me
Hate you? sh!t H.C. you're stuck with me lovin' ya girl hehehehe
Good- I would hate to have to hunt you down on facebook... I have issues letting go-would totally be a stalker, lol
Ivorwen I am sorry that you had to go through that with your fake aunt! That is horrible. *hugs* and yep fake ppl are the worse
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