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Gotta ask, would you go out with a hard-out ugly chick?

  1. twuxedo profile image57
    twuxedoposted 7 years ago

    My best friend balce is going out with the chick with the ugliest face ever, not only that she is 125 and weighs 90kg all of us think she is revolting, don't want to be seen with her, But want to hang out with him. hats the answer.
    He says she's got personality. Haven't seen the evidence.

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      zampanoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      relax.
      She must have "somethin'"

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      Writer Riderposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Yes, don't mean to be sarcastic (well, maybe I do in a funny, lighthearted way). Did you ever imagine dating a mirror? There are quite a lot of benefits associated with dating yourself including deep, requited love. Hell, you don't even have to argue with yourself.

      1. twuxedo profile image57
        twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Hey I'm a nice Guy I also model for a Top Agency, so don't go saying I should look in the Mirror, not nice.
        All the other Girls are beautiful, Besides you can say that not you going to the Rods with her tonite.

        1. CMHypno profile image95
          CMHypnoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          You know not everyone can be beautiful, it's not a sin to be less than gorgeous and it's not like any of us get a choice about what our faces look like.

          If you don't like her, make it about her personality not her looks.  Sounds kind of shallow if you only want to hang out with 'gorgeous' people - you might be missing out on some really, fun, interesting, but ordinary-looking folk out there.

    3. AdsenseStrategies profile image75
      AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Man, she is old

      1. twuxedo profile image57
        twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Sorry thats how high she is.

    4. Stevennix2001 profile image92
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Honestly yes for me.  As a wise man once said,"beauty is in the eye of the beholder."  I know physical attraction often plays a key role in all our lives when it comes to relationships in general.  However, I don't focus on that at all.  I guess it's different for each guy, but when I was younger, girls would hardly give me the time of day.  In fact, one girl laughed when i asked her out once in high school, and she wasn't laughing because she was flattered either.  she was  laughing at me, as her exact words were, "im out of your league, loser."  im over it now, but i never forgotten it.

      since graduating high school, i've come to realize over the years, physical beauty isn't everything.  i mean all looks come and go no matter how much you take care of yourself over the years.  you can't defeat the aging process of time, as it's inevitable.  however, what does remain the same is a person's personality.  If you base everything on a relationship, solely on looks, then your missing out on a whole lot more.

      I remember when i met my second gf, charity, through a dating service.  no, she was not a supermodel at all.  in fact, she was overweight too.  go ahead and laugh if you want about that.  however, she had a great personality, and i was a hell of a lot closer to her than i was to my ex nadia, at the time, whom looked like a super model, to say the least.  however, she never listened or had the same compassion as charity.  that's when i learned that inner beauty is a lot more beautiful in a person.  although, things didn't work out with me and charity, i still look at a person's inner beauty before their looks.

      sure, looks are nice and I consider them icing on the cake, but it's not as important as people think.  that's why i usually tend to focus more on inner beauty as a girl can look like a goddess, but her personality can easily make her as ugly and vain as sin to me.  Trust me, you may not think it's so hot for your friend to date a ugly chick, but i'd rather date an ugly girl than a straight up b@*** anyday of the week.

      1. twuxedo profile image57
        twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Thanks Mate for a genuine response, this chick just isn't nice on the inside, like I said Susan Boyle is a Babe. I am reanalysing shes slugging warm Beer from a Can on my Deck, she swears, so maybe shes, more repulsive inside than the outer layer. I'm not even going outside, normally by now I'd be joining them, even the Beer isn't tempting me.

        1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 7 years agoin reply to this

          once agai say who cares?? would this be a topic if it were someone u found attractive who ACTED in this manner? ppl do crap all the time so what... and even more so pl act badly whether they look a certain way or not.. point is who cares?... bottom line with live in a world where society is severely obsessed with looks and irritating ppl are ppl bad or good ugly or not

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      cosetteposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      http://i46.tinypic.com/25kjt6t.jpg

      1. twuxedo profile image57
        twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Not drinking. Sober Driver for this lot.
        Thanks for the reminder. Ones O.K. though isn't it.

        1. Pearldiver profile image82
          Pearldiverposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          A bit like the boy/girl stuff, isn't it?  It depends WHICH ONE... Don't Lower your Standards Mate!! big_smile
          If You're going to have One beer.... Make Sure that it is an appealing one... good on the eye and doesn't put you off your next one! lol

    6. shazwellyn profile image59
      shazwellynposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Joe Strummer of the Clash said 'Even Ugly people are beautiful inside!'

      What on earth are you going to do when you get the midlife spread and get wrinkly and ugly?  More importantly, will you no longer love your life partner when she gets old?

      1. twuxedo profile image57
        twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Old people are great and I will be old as well Cvetta my girlfriend is 26 and beautiful she will be 96 and beautiful, thats how it is. She has a nice decent personality. This woman has gone from our set and thats great, she was an absolute mole, and a skanky one at that, the fact she looked repulsive was just an extra. Gotta hit the Sack Early Shift tomorrow. I have not tried to be offensive, this was a real problem, and until you have been in a sit. like that you don't realise How bad it can get.

        1. shazwellyn profile image59
          shazwellynposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I apologise if you don't see my point.  It is time that will tell no lies and what you might think today, will change in the future.  It is just a shame you can't find the beauty in her.  I am interested to know, why post a thread like this if you don't want honest, hopefully constructive, critism x

        2. CMHypno profile image95
          CMHypnoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          The problem was that you started the thread purely attacking the woman's looks.  If you don't know that that is going to put the female Hubbers backs up, you don't know much about women!

          As you don't like her and what she is doing with your friends, that's what you should have posted about.  You were lucky enough to be born with a face that other people find attractive - it doesn't, however, give you the right to mock and attack others who are less fortunate than you in that regard.  They probably have qualities that are worth a lot more than a pretty face!

  2. Uninvited Writer profile image82
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    This is kind of an offensive thread don't you think?

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Why, she isn't gonna see my page.
      I'm asking a question, there are more offensive stuff on here than this question. What's your problem, you don't have to hang with her.

    2. wsp2469 profile image60
      wsp2469posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Perhaps but let's try to stick with the original topic, shall we?
      So allow me to translate a bit.
      You have a friend who is dating a woman you think is too old and not what you consider attractive.  Y'all wanna hang with him but there is something about this woman who bother you is that right, OP?

      1. twuxedo profile image57
        twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        In short, shes, not old shes 30 ish, I stuffed up her height and made her sound like she was 125 years old to one guy.
        Shes a total Package, and I mean the inner is Gross just as the outer is. You gotta see her, I am temptd to put up a pic. But probably won't risk that, just to prove my point.

  3. mel22 profile image60
    mel22posted 7 years ago

    TWUX, sounds like you're jealous and the one lacking personality if you cant get over someones face. - Just sayin'

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Oh its not just the face, you gotta see her. I don't believe anyone would want to assocaiate, with her, except him, hes been my friend for 15 years. Thats History, man

  4. AEvans profile image79
    AEvansposted 7 years ago

    Beauty starts from within and the outside fades, you should embrace him because there is something about her that outshines her looks. smile I also wrote about that too! smile

    Listen to the song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlY1DR96a-E there you go. smile

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Believe it or not just heard that she is cheating on him as well, with a Guy that says he feels as the rest of us do. She is loud as well, Loud and common.

  5. KCC Big Country profile image88
    KCC Big Countryposted 7 years ago

    Awww...c'mon...us ugly gals need lovin' too!

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Man no way are you as ugly as her it's not poss.

  6. Gregg Biancci profile image68
    Gregg Biancciposted 7 years ago

    Haha, she hit every branch as she fell out of the ugly tree?

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      She hit every branch and majored on the trunk, glad you seem to sympathise, why do the chicks always be so protective?

  7. Pearldiver profile image82
    Pearldiverposted 7 years ago

    Hahaha.... You should write a hub on the beauty of ugly! lol

    And then follow it up with the ugly of beauty! lol

    It seems that you are qualified at both subjects! big_smile

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Man they are all at my House right now, came just after I finished telling that lady that she had no rights, she couldn't see my Page, she is sitting on my outside Couch and needs all of it the other girls are sitting on the ground in their spnky little jeans, getting dirt on them,  when her flour sacks are nice and comfy on the only Couch.
      Thats what I mean by rude. Two girls squashed in Car she takes the backseat. I think no one on here gets how ugly I mean she is. I feel like taking a Photo.

      1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
        greeneyesH1982posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        WHO CARES! this is the world we live in deal with it

    2. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I wouldn't go that far. lol lol lol lol

  8. Hear Mum Roar profile image57
    Hear Mum Roarposted 7 years ago

    No. A), I'm straight, and B), I'm already engaged to a wonderful guy.

    I think you're being rather hard on your friend. If you're a true friend, why can't you just be happy that he's happy?

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Did you get "she's cheating on him with another friend Alaine," he hasn't had the balls to turn up today, his girlfriend is sitting on the mud outside, on her own.

      1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
        greeneyesH1982posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        <snipped - no personal attacks in the forums> keep in mind there are people who will think YOU are ugly to! and yet the world still goes round and round.. rather then obsessing about this why dont u go and feed the needy will all your money u supposedly earn by being a model?

        1. twuxedo profile image57
          twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I am a new model, I started with a B.S singing career that went nowhere. I love to surf and hang with the likeminded. I like banging on this thing on and off nothing too serious, I don't write, just chat.
          I hardly make enough to feed the worlds needy.
          But am in Greenpeace and animals rights, I pay for an old lady to get her hair cut once amonth, because her family are, wasters.
          She likes to look pretty, I work at a Hair Salon 5 days a week, to fuel my modelling Career so yeah when I am rich (Say If) I will be generous, How about you, Do any charity work?

  9. Uninvited Writer profile image82
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    Info for you, most women do not like being referred to as chicks...just saying...

  10. TheGlassSpider profile image74
    TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago

    You're not with her. Why do you care?

    Get over what's on the outside, and look at what's valuable. You might be Mr. Top Model today, but give it 20 or 30 years, my friend. You'll see what's what.

    ETA: And when you get there, I hope you've found a partner with less shallow concerns than you're exhibiting.

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I have a partner thank you.
      She is great looking and not shallow. Neither am I.

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 7 years ago

    Gang, don't fall for this. I'm smelling sock puppet mischief on a Saturday night. Seven days, zero hubs, controversial hateful topic. We've been down this road before.

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    Audreveaposted 7 years ago

    yeah - smells like feet.

  13. Uninvited Writer profile image82
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    You are probably right Nelle smile

  14. Mighty Mom profile image87
    Mighty Momposted 7 years ago

    Sounds like in a sick, twisted way you are jealous of your friend being with this woman (UW is right. We do NOT like being referred to as chicks).
    How do you know what she and your friend have together when you're not there in a crowd judging?
    Everyone remember Susan Boyle on American Idol?
    I rest my case.

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Honey Susan Boyle is a Babe, I'd be seen with her, no problems.
      You can't compare this with Susan.

    2. wsp2469 profile image60
      wsp2469posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Come on, Mighty.
      I like the term chick.  Besides, we don't complain about nicknames for us.  I have no problem with the terms dude, boy, stud or whatever the male version for chick is.
      Let's just say his friend is dating some girl none of them like and they want to know what to do since they want to put bros before hos . . . so to speak.
      maybe if y'all get away from the physical appearance thing you might get somewhere.

      1. twuxedo profile image57
        twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        The Chicks I move with all love being called Chicks, no one has called me up on it yet. Never heard of anyone complaing its been around since my olds.

        1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 7 years agoin reply to this

          the women here are telling you they dont.. and neither do I its a respect thing.. im a young woman not a "chick" im a human being a young woman with a name and i have one so it can be used

      2. TheGlassSpider profile image74
        TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        None of those terms have quite the diminutive connotations as "chick." There really isn't a male equivalent, at least that I can think of.

        You might find a stud on a farm as well, but at least he's valuable...if you lose a chick on a farm you ain't lost nuttin' wink

        Just sayin'...even though I am occasionally guilty of calling us "chicks" too, I'll admit it.

        I agree with getting away from the physical appearance thing all the way, though.

        1. twuxedo profile image57
          twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I find the fact that you consider a chick nothing on a farm, as pretty indicitive of the type of person you are.

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            Writer Riderposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Are you talking to me? If you are, I don't care where a person is from as long as they're decent.

            1. twuxedo profile image57
              twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Well Its sorted, txtd him and told him about the woman, he just said he is dumping her not because he thinks the ugly thing is that big, but he just found out about Alaine, So now he wants me to tell Alaines Girlfriend, and no not going there.

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Hope you aren't talking to me dude because it doesn't show anything. and plus that sentence made no sense.

          3. TheGlassSpider profile image74
            TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Man, I've raised chickens, and I've cared for chicks. The fact that you made that statement lets me know you haven't. As far as the value of an entire farm is concerned, a chick is nothing compared to a stud. One will often lose multiple chicks in a year, and not flinch...but it would hurt to lose a good stud.

            1. twuxedo profile image57
              twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              All creatures are equal just saying.

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                Writer Riderposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Projecting a little...

        2. wsp2469 profile image60
          wsp2469posted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Don't sweat using that word.  After all, words only have the power we give them.

          1. twuxedo profile image57
            twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Never heard anyone get so excited about the use of a common term.
            Hell some woman are high maintenance. Not my type so its all arrelevant, Thanks for the approval man.

  15. Webmatron profile image58
    Webmatronposted 7 years ago

    I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that beauty is only skin deep, but ugly is to the bone.

    There's only so much ugliness a person can have and it be just circumstantial like age.

    Even most shallow guys, when looking at a woman with some grace and personality, will focus on the specific flaw before calling her ugly.  They have maybe one or two things and will say, "She'd be alright if..."

    Very very few guys can look at a good woman and see nothing cute about her even if she has legit physical defects.

    If on the other hand, a woman is just skank and a guy sees that, his opinion deserves some respect.  I don't think it's totally wrong for a guy to comment on a woman's awful looks if they are a direct result of her being evil.  He's just recognizing the physical repulsiveness as part of the package.

    So dude...your friend is a masochist.  Some guys are just suckers for pain, and he might like her *because* she's bad news...like some girls chase bad boys, some boys chase bad girls.

    You can try to save him, but you're his friend, not his therapist.  So just try to be supportive, and *if he asks* tell him the truth.  If he doesn't ask, then he's grown and makes his own mistakes.

    Just take care in the case of the drugs thing, that you don't get jacked up because of her loud mouth.

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      None of these people do drugs, not even her, but you are right Skank is the word I was going for.

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    Star Witnessposted 7 years ago

    Dating an equal on ALL counts (looks, intelligence, etc.) usually is a good idea if the relationship is going to last...  Doesn't sound like you are at all serious, though, man.  And you don't have any reason to speak for your friend, unless this woman is a real mean witch.

    Gotta thing about ugly, though, lol.  I'm gonna guess you are projecting...  btw, women are defending because they don't like to feel ugly, just like men...  Nobody is perfect and negativity always goes to the heart.

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Hey I'm not dating her, Hell no! I have said what type of person she is Witches are nice girls compared. I agree with the first bit though, I do put some level of importance on looks, I however am not dissing the general population just this one mean B.
      And look I hate my nose it is big, but stuff like this I deal with its just vanity, that I don't like.

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      Writer Riderposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      That's quite a stretch! I'm attractive but I still think
      judging a person based on looks is harsh. Though, a person can be unattractive both on the inside and the outside. It's the inside you want to worry about.

      1. twuxedo profile image57
        twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Hey it is both inside and out.

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        Star Witnessposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        It's really actually affected her.  I mean it isn't normal...she doesn't even look normal.  She knows it, and attractive people beware.  She's just nasty to them, no lie...

        A plastic surgeon wrote a book about this ...forget his name. Why do you think they are in business? Anyway, I said more than that in my post.  So, anyway...

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          Writer Riderposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Wow, this kindergarten of you. It hasn't affected me and, frankly, I'm a lot more attractive than you. Why are you always stirring the pot, trying to taint people's image with lies? I feel sorry for you.

  17. OregonWino profile image72
    OregonWinoposted 7 years ago

    All the cliches aside.....as I ahev gotten older (I am 31 lind you, so not that old) I have found that personality matters far more than looks.  With the right girl, you will grow to find her mroe and more attractive because her personality and other qualities make her prettier...beauty is a learned responce for the most part anyways...so you can certainly learn to find someone more attractive...to a degree

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Again do not get that we don't like being called chick? and I have to say I think you are very rude for posting this thread. and sorry but you are shallow for posting something like this. get over yourself! Your friend is happy and if she is cheating on him then he'll break up with her. but you are being quite rude by posting something like this!

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      you were right she's gone, hey and I am not sorry. Party Nite I think.

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    Star Witnessposted 7 years ago

    Wow, she must be some kinda monster.  I wouldn't believe it, but then nobody here has met my (basically) sister-in-law, if you know what I'm saying.  Thing is, with her, she had horrible scarring acne...and I think is so mean inside because she just feels so bad about her outside.

    And you know, there's always nose jobs...especially in your career, I'm sure it would help.

    Anyway, knowing all that, taking it into consideration...this is how I'd approach the situation and a friend.

    1. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Funny thing about the nose jobs, I just had a Guy look at ways of altering it, as the Agency basically said it would prevent me getting certain jobs. Limiting my sphere of work. I am already in the Casual/Sports Catergory, my aim was high fashion.
      He showed me a detailed computer doodah of how my new nose would look and for the moolah I just could not see the sense.
      So I am going with the one I have, limiting or not.
      I didn't ever intend doing something like modelling, a Talent Agency Guy came up to me in my Lunchbreak, I realise its a short term thing, but thought why not. I'll end up a Hairstylist.

  20. Stevennix2001 profile image92
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    all i can say is this.  as glass spider said, your not dating her, so why do you even care?  are you that ashamed to hang out with your friend knowing you also have to hang out with a allegedly ugly girl?  isn't your friend's  happiness important?  don't you care about that?  aren't you being selfish for not wanting him to be happy if it means being with her?  i could understand if she treated him like trash or cheated on him or both, but if that's not the case, then why are you bringing it up?  i think you've not only shown how shallow you are here in forums, but you also showed EVERYONE how much of a true friend you are.  instead of caring about your friends happiness, your more concerned about what you want.  ever try asking him that sometime?  obviously you don't care about anyone but yourself.  you can report me if you want, but people like you make  me sick.

    1. AdsenseStrategies profile image75
      AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years ago

      OK. When do we get to see Allen Funt

    2. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years ago

      This one is solved over finished, Happy ending, thanks for the Comments positive and negative, I just feel as if you people willed her away.
      Wish I could get you all a Beer.

      1. wsp2469 profile image60
        wsp2469posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Yeah, get while the getting is good!
        Ply the women with alcohol too!
        I mean show them your appreciation.
        Damn!
        I type everything I think when i drink and hub.

    3. profile image0
      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

      roll

    4. Webmatron profile image58
      Webmatronposted 7 years ago

      I can imagine a drunken hub...

      How Drunk I Am Right Now

      How Much I Love You Guys

      I'm Not Really That Drunk

      I'm Gonna Call Her

      I Miss You Can I Come Over?

      Nah Baby Nah It's Not Like That

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      cosetteposted 7 years ago

      you're kind of cool, Webmatron smile

      1. Webmatron profile image58
        Webmatronposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        @cossette, Thank you. :-)

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      Star Witnessposted 7 years ago

      lol On the other hand, some very famous writers did their best work drunk.  ...I think The Great Gatsby was written drunk.

      Hey, thanks for the suggestion, I think I'll drink some tonight..

      1. profile image0
        cosetteposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        yeah Charles Bukowski wrote some of his best stuff while smashed...

        1. wsp2469 profile image60
          wsp2469posted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I know I sometimes do!

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          Star Witnessposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Buk!  Another of my favorites.  He even wrote about drunks.  "Barfly" and such.

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            cosetteposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            hmm i should try that sometime, just to see what comes out.







            Cows In Art Class 

            good weather
            is like
            good women-
            it doesn't always happen
            and when it does
            it doesn't
            always last.
            man is
            more stable:
            if he's bad
            there's more chance
            he'll stay that way,
            or if he's good
            he might hang
            on,
            but a woman
            is changed
            by
            children
            age
            diet
            conversation
            sex
            the moon
            the absence or
            presence of sun
            or good times.
            a woman must be nursed
            into subsistence
            by love
            where a man can become
            stronger
            by being hated.

    7. cindyvine profile image85
      cindyvineposted 7 years ago

      As Catherine Tate says, "Sorry not drunk enough to find you attractive."

    8. profile image0
      Star Witnessposted 7 years ago

      Yah, well, never said he understood women, wink, specially not art
      'cows.' (Jealousy.)  Can still admire his, lol, raw virtuoso, though.

      lol

    9. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years ago

      I thought, that I would let everyone know exactly what has happened, then maybe a few, too hard on me at start might want to take back a few things.
      Not only was this fat ugly Chick inside and out using two of my Best Mates, it seems she has a Husband, that is looking after two of her kids, while she does her thing. Still feel the inner beauty, I hope not.
      To the guys that gave support, I am used to Chat rooms, (used but sick off) This is how we chat, so perhaps I haven't the level of finnesse required, hopefully it will develope.

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image92
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        no offense, but you would've saved yourself a lot of criticism if you had mentioned that part earlier.  which leads me to believe you either forgot or you were just testing to see what everyone would say.  not that im blaming you or anything, but im just telling you that for next time.

        1. twuxedo profile image57
          twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          hindsight is a beautiful thing. Interestingl;y the only growls I have received on this Post have been from the Ladies. Is that because woman are less secure?

          1. Cagsil profile image60
            Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            No, most men are smart enough to stay out of line of fire, when another male puts himself in the line of fire.

            They have a tendency to move out of the way, so they are assured of no backlash, as you've seen from some of the Women here on HubPages.

            On a personal note, I am male and I'll glad respond to your question, which I wasn't going to, until now. I find you repulsive, annoying, degrading to others and completely out of line. I also feel like you've done yourself a GREAT disservice, by posing a sadly misconceived thread.

            On that note. Do try to have a good day. This will most likely be my only post for this thread, because for the pure and simple fact that is disgusts me in the first place.

            Bye. smile

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image92
              Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

              although i know i said i wouldn't speak to you anymore, but i will say this.  for once i think we both can agree on something.  couldn't have said it better myself.  don't get me wrong, this doesn't change how i feel about you cags, but i think you said it best on this forum.

            2. twuxedo profile image57
              twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              From this I get you approve of her, well you are welcome to my share. Your reaction is way OTT

          2. Stevennix2001 profile image92
            Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Secure?  dude, do you ever honestly read what you post?  initially around the beginning you were saying that you opposed to your friend dating an ugly girl solely on her looks.  however, you didn't even bother to mention the part until later that she was using your friend as the other guy, to cheat on her husband.  yet your acting surprised by the harsh criticism?  like i said before, you SHOULD HAVE mentioned that part earlier, and you would've saved yourself a lot of criticism.  that's all i was saying.

            1. twuxedo profile image57
              twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Dude I learnty about what the Huckery Mole was up to during the course of the afternoon, from my friend, read from the top.
              Yeah initially it was disgust at her looks, at her behaviour, eating etc., but I get vibes and from her I got bad ones, and by that I mean the lady made me feel that she wasn't a nice person. I am totally blown away, by how many people have supported the Trollop, I haven't a clue why? But there you go.

              1. Stevennix2001 profile image92
                Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

                actually, i did read from the top, and read EVERYTHING you said in this forum.  you didn't mention that fact, she was married to another man, until this page of the forum, so don't play the innocent I didn't know thing. however, i won't debate this with you as experience has taught me that most people are generally idiots that believe whatever the hell it is that feeds their needs and egos, so debating with you is pointless.  from reading your entire forum, your not at all interested in discussing this topic, but rather to joke around about it instead for your own amusement. 

                all i can say is your a sad and sick person.  i feel sorry for you to be honest. i just hope for your sake you don't get into an accident that permanently disfigures you, then that would be bad as you would probably expect girls to look at your inner beauty since you wouldn't be that hot then.  that would truly be pathetic. oh by the way, women weren't the only people insulting you in this forum as you didn't acknowledge my previous posts to you on pages 2 and 3.  however, that's fine.

              2. shazwellyn profile image59
                shazwellynposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Maybe she can sense your dislike of her? 

                Maybe if you change your approach to her, she might change toward you.  She might see you as threatening to her relationship - you might influence your friend and lead her to be broken hearted.

                I hope this helps x

    10. IzzyM profile image90
      IzzyMposted 7 years ago
    11. ClaudetteK profile image56
      ClaudetteKposted 7 years ago

      I've just been readin this and can't believe it. Why do you want people you don't know, what you should do about a situation.
      I'm in Kalgoolie and the guys there are grateful for any Chicks, Fat, ugly pretty skinny any Chicks.
      Maybe your friend isn't as confident with the Ladies.
      Your wasting your time asking strangers, you have just made a total Dork of yourself.

      1. twuxedo profile image57
        twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Kalgoolie, I'm in Brissie, so you're an Ocker, thats not your real picture is it?. You're gorgeous.

        1. ClaudetteK profile image56
          ClaudetteKposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I wasn't going to answer further, because I think you a rude dork, but no I won't give you the benefit of thinking I look like that,
          It was as close as to my ex 's new tart as I could get.
          So no smartass I don't look like that.
          I thought you looked like one of the Greeks from around Melbourne.

          1. twuxedo profile image57
            twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Thats prob. because I am one of the Greeks from round Melbourne{originally) Hope you aren't being rascist ClaudetteK

            1. ClaudetteK profile image56
              ClaudetteKposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Yeah you look like you came from a long, line of of Fish Merchants. I am joking. I was married to a Greek.
              Divorced him smartly.

              1. twuxedo profile image57
                twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Ha! I'm called Dimi short for Dimitrios, and I am actually a Greek Cypriot, but I live here now, been called worse.

    12. brimancandy profile image81
      brimancandyposted 7 years ago

      My brother's ex-wife weighed over 300 punds, probably closer to 400. But, she has a pretty face, and when she was not being a total bitch, or slapping the crap out of him. She seemed sweet and innocent. But was far from it.

      He seems to date a lot of women who aren't the best looking girls in the bunch. But beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
      I figure, if he loves them, and they love him that is all that matters.

      I had a problem when I was younger, where I dated only women that looked like Heather Locklair. But, it seemd every one of those girls were hard to keep, as there were plenty of better looking guys waiting in the wings to take their attention away.

      I solved that problem by dating the better looking guys, and I have never been happier. A lot less complaining and wanting, and more shared interests and no worries of wether or not they are pleased with your performance.

      And they can never say. I was faking it. LIAR!!!!

      1. shazwellyn profile image59
        shazwellynposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Well that is one way to solve the issue! LMAO... literally!

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