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Are you a force to be reckon with or are you a softy?

  1. Journey2244 profile image60
    Journey2244posted 7 years ago

    Just asking! I tend to lean toward both sets. I like a person who can stand their ground.  At the same time I think people with a soft demeandor is someone you can learn from.

    Which are you?

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I can be a softy but I always stand for what is right!

  2. tantrum profile image61
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    I'm very soft.

    1. EmpressFelicity profile image76
      EmpressFelicityposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Yeah, right! lol lol

  3. habee profile image94
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    I guess I'm in the middle. I hate confrontation and love for everyone to get along, but I'll stand my ground when I have to. When it comes to my kids and grands, however, I am a mama bear!

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    I am a reall softy . . . until you set off my defibrillator.

  5. emievil profile image80
    emievilposted 7 years ago

    I'm a softy but be careful not to trigger my temper, you might get more than you bargain for big_smile.

    1. Ohma profile image76
      Ohmaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I think this is the case for most people. I know it is for me.

      1. emievil profile image80
        emievilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I agree. But then again, some of my people and previous staff are / were actually frightened of me and I haven't shown my claws yet smile. Guess they don't see me as a softy.

  6. Disturbia profile image60
    Disturbiaposted 7 years ago

    Mostly I'm a softy, but piss me off and I'm a FURY!

  7. Greek One profile image75
    Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

    parts of me are very soft...
    but other parts can get very hard very quickly

    1. Disturbia profile image60
      Disturbiaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Oh my smile

      1. Greek One profile image75
        Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        your what??

        smile

  8. Bard of Ely profile image88
    Bard of Elyposted 7 years ago

    I think I am both!

  9. donotfear profile image89
    donotfearposted 7 years ago

    I'm a softee when it pertains to matters of the heart, which can set me up for lots of heartbreak. But when it comes to other stuff, I'll stand my ground quite well. I had a former friend (I say former cause I had to get tough)refer to me as 'the firecracker'!

  10. Rafini profile image89
    Rafiniposted 7 years ago

    I am a softie who doesn't know when to keep her mouth shut and was able to learn how to be a force to be reckoned with but doesn't want to live that way and has finally determined to be somewhere in the middle.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    I am in the middle actually. I start off soft but if someone pushes the wrong buttons then I am a force to be reckon with.smile

  12. susanlang profile image58
    susanlangposted 7 years ago

    I'm both. When I'm attacked on some forums, for instance a Stalker's Forum awhile back, by some crazy hubber. I simply pointed out the facts by using her own statements to get to the "truth" then I printed out and recorded that forum page in case any questions came up. Sadly, the crazy hubber has been out for me and clearly hateful and vindictive ever since. It almost feels like I may have corrected a bad lawyer for legal misconduct or something. Gee, I say get over yourself! smile

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    logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago

    I am an irresistable force! smile

 
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