Are you a force to be reckon with or are you a softy?

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   Journey2244posted 15 years ago

   Just asking! I tend to lean toward both sets. I like a person who can stand their ground.  At the same time I think people with a soft demeandor is someone you can learn from.
   
   Which are you?

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      prettydarkhorseposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I can be a softy but I always stand for what is right!

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   tantrumposted 15 years ago

   I'm very soft.

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      EmpressFelicityposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Yeah, right!

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   habeeposted 15 years ago

   I guess I'm in the middle. I hate confrontation and love for everyone to get along, but I'll stand my ground when I have to. When it comes to my kids and grands, however, I am a mama bear!

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   ralwusposted 15 years ago

   I am a reall softy . . . until you set off my defibrillator.

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   emievilposted 15 years ago

   I'm a softy but be careful not to trigger my temper, you might get more than you bargain for .

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      Ohmaposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I think this is the case for most people. I know it is for me.

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         emievilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         I agree. But then again, some of my people and previous staff are / were actually frightened of me and I haven't shown my claws yet . Guess they don't see me as a softy.

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   Disturbiaposted 15 years ago

   Mostly I'm a softy, but piss me off and I'm a FURY!

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   Greek Oneposted 15 years ago

   parts of me are very soft...
   but other parts can get very hard very quickly

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      Disturbiaposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Oh my

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         Greek Oneposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         your what??
         
         

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   Bard of Elyposted 15 years ago

   I think I am both!

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   donotfearposted 15 years ago

   I'm a softee when it pertains to matters of the heart, which can set me up for lots of heartbreak. But when it comes to other stuff, I'll stand my ground quite well. I had a former friend (I say former cause I had to get tough)refer to me as 'the firecracker'!

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    Rafiniposted 15 years ago

    I am a softie who doesn't know when to keep her mouth shut and was able to learn how to be a force to be reckoned with but doesn't want to live that way and has finally determined to be somewhere in the middle.

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    Crazdwriterposted 15 years ago

    I am in the middle actually. I start off soft but if someone pushes the wrong buttons then I am a force to be reckon with.

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    susanlangposted 15 years ago

    I'm both. When I'm attacked on some forums, for instance a Stalker's Forum awhile back, by some crazy hubber. I simply pointed out the facts by using her own statements to get to the "truth" then I printed out and recorded that forum page in case any questions came up. Sadly, the crazy hubber has been out for me and clearly hateful and vindictive ever since. It almost feels like I may have corrected a bad lawyer for legal misconduct or something. Gee, I say get over yourself!

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    logic,commonsenseposted 15 years ago

    I am an irresistable force!

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