how old are you, really? Im a mom, Ive got three little girls, who think they are alot bigger than they are, and I would be real mad at some adult "being friends" with them on line. You seem like a really nice person, who wants to have fun and maybe be helpful to others. But somehow, I just dont think this is the right place for you.
And if your older than I think, I apologize deeply for maybe being overprotective. (its the mom in me)