It cannot be otherwise, as we are all Gods! That is to say, that we are made in the image of Spirit, that Spirit dwells in us, and that we are not our own.
One of the worst things is to have a toxic friend or be a toxic friend. We may not say anything to toxic people, but 6 months; a year later, we've had enough and will ask them to move on. Actually, they weaken us, and we begin to feel insecure.
The Soul is in Isolation from God and is on a Sojourn to find its way HOME. Anything which makes it strong is useful, and anything that makes it weak it abhors. Expansion is life, vastness; narrowness is death, and the Soul knows this.
Actually, this is a problem in our Christianity, as we love Light and hate suffering, the very thing that we sometimes need to facilitate our inward and onward journey. Hope this helps. Much Love.