Is Virginity Dignity or Lack of Opportunity?

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   Ez Kayposted 13 years ago

   i still wonder why i let him use and dump me... now am getting married, i don't know what to tell my husband on the night i am spoken for... he has trusted me so much and...

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      EmpressFelicityposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Is that you in your avatar pic?  'Cos if it is, I'm getting very, very confused

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         Motown2Chitownposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Me too, Empress.  So very.

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   Greek Oneposted 13 years ago

   virginity is a special gift that you can only give away once..
   
   it is a wonderful flower in the midst of weeds..
   
   it is the cherry, so to speak, on top of your Sundae.
   
   It should be saved until marriage.  I myself have been married for many years, and I still have not given this gift to my wife.  I am planning to share myself with her on our 10th anniversary.  There will be wine, a romantic dinner, video camera, etc.
   
   I can hardly wait for that special 5 minutes to come (pun intended)

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      CMHypnoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Your wife is such a lucky woman, Greek One! How many years to go before the most precious 5 minutes of her life? But even with your special talents, will you be able to eat your dinner, down an bottle of wine, switch on the camera and totally fulfil your woman's every carnal expectation in 5 minutes?

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         Greek Oneposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         who said anything about filling the woman's needs??

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            CMHypnoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Explains why she's willing to wait 10 years!!!!!

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               RachaelLeflerposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               OMG best. forum thread. ever!

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      klarawieckposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I thought the kid was yours!

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   IzzyMposted 13 years ago

   It's lack of opportunity for me. I'm a Born Again Virgin!

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      CMHypnoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Same here Izzy - George Clooney would need to bring a bottle of champagne and a can of WD40 to loosen all the rust!

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         IzzyMposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         No, if Geoge Clooney walked into my life looking for coffee or whatever, trust me I would not need WD40 LOL

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   Cagsilposted 13 years ago

   Virginity Dignity is religious based ignorance and has nothing to do with a lack of opportunity.
   
   Being a virgin at the time of marriage is solely based on the irrationality of religion based morals. Religion puts a false price on virginity, as though it is something sacred.
   
   If a woman chooses to have sex before marriage, it doesn't make her any less moral and does not change her appeal.
   
   If a man choose to have sex before marriage, it doesn't make him any less moral and doesn't change his appeal, either.
   
   The prize bestowed on virginity solely points out one's ignorance and inexperience in understanding life itself.

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      RachaelLeflerposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Being a virgin at the time of marriage was just a way the Catholic Church tracked people and cut down on illegitimate births to cut down on property inheritance disputes. Same reason they made priests celibate. But they failed, so many popes had illegitimate children and priests can't even keep their hands off of little boys because they have all this pent up boner energy they can't use to fight a holy war anymore! LMAO (my bf's catholic and I like to make fun of him)

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         RachaelLeflerposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         But it's telling the percentage of Christians who use birth control and have premarital sex. It's definitely a majority.

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   Home Girlposted 13 years ago

   Opportunity is always there, you just have to be careful not to drop your cherry at the wrong place and time. You never know who might pick it up!

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      IzzyMposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Or what you might pick up!

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