I'm scared! I think I met my souls missing piece! Even scarier He came so unexpe

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  1. December1979 profile image58
    December1979posted 8 years ago

    I'm scared! I think I met my souls missing piece! Even scarier He came so unexpected!

    I have been giving up little by little day by day. Only holding out to finish my book. So my daughters will be financially secure. And The book will be a legacy they can continually add to and pass on! My heart has never known love! I have never been loved! I know love for my girls! I feel like I'm dying inside! Then today this guy I met turns out to have all the qualities of the man I waited for then gave up hope for! He is ready after a few moments to go for it! I like that! I want it bad! I trust him and I feel like I know him! Please anyone all advice welcomed!

  2. jite profile image39
    jiteposted 8 years ago

    hi,I dont know what is the problem.go ahead.Sometime we think no one is for me,but who knows god keeps the special one for you.

  3. SoundAdvice profile image60
    SoundAdviceposted 8 years ago

    I can understand that sometimes we want something in life so bad but since we never get it, when it actually appears it is hard for us to accept it and we become fearful. All the apprehension on your side here is justified. You are right in weighing the pros and cons especially since you are not just thinking about yourself but your daughters too.

    So here's the solution. Be very clear with this guy about your goals in life and what you expect from life and from your potential partner. It does not have to be a confrontation! It should be a mutual consultation like a first step towards a better future. As we all know, most of us do make out something from our first step what the future might hold (you know the level of compatability, understanding, communication etc.) If you feel he appreciates you for who you are, respects the rights of your daughters on you then you have nothing to lose. Go ahead. Waiting, patience and making wise choices is the right way but missing an opportunity life throws at us is not. So if you feel he is the right one don't let him walk away. Best of Luck!

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    Georgiana85posted 8 years ago


    I think is time to stop thinking and start acting, go for it and have a blast, no regrets, you deserve you chance to happiness don't you?

    Get back and say how it worked out for you.


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